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Date Posted: 15:00:56 12/09/25 Tue
Author: Anne01
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: Lion-Tamer 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 13:54:04 12/09/25 Tue

>They don't live with us full time, so I'm not sure it
>would work well. I'm currently insisting on wiping
>their bottoms, bathing them both together (they do
>their own privates and dry themselves after) and
>making sure they have the same bedtime. I really don't
>know how to introduce a diaper for the first time to
>them.
>
>I think deep down I just want them to see me as an
>equal parent to their mother. From what I understand
>you are wanting me to start treating the 7 year old
>younger at this point. I could start doing his socks
>and shoes, he's very proud of the fact he can tie them
>himself, maybe this is my "in" and build up dressing
>him from there.
>That's one way to start . Once the older one see's his little brother getting all the attention and love from you , he will want some of it as well .
>
>>>I have to be honest with you, I don't know what's
>>>best. I'd prefer not to have to clean up a 10 year
>>>olds diaper. But at the same time does it work for
>>>behaviour modification?
>>>
>>>I'm not even sure how to introduce diapers in a way
>>>that doesn't get pushback. I think I'd like a way to
>>>strengthen the bond with the 7 year old, does babying
>>>do this? How do I take steps if so?
>>
>>> I have found that with a lot of praise and rewards
>>the babying becomes easier . As a matter of fact the
>>child craves all the positive love and attention you
>>heap on them for using their diaper and pacifier .
>>Later you can add baby clothes and even bond with
>>nursing . For me spanking was always a last resort .
>>If you don't want poopy diapers . Then a morning enema
>>helps prevent that . If you want to know more you can
>>get me on Trillian . annecan1 .

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