Re: How do I get started? -- Diaper and punishment for children and teens

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Date Posted: 08:36:48 12/14/25 Sun
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Marc
Subject: Re: How do I get started?
In reply to: LionTamer 's message, "Re: How do I get started?" on 23:34:46 08/07/25 Thu

>The bruises are from the first time I used a hairbrush
>to spank him. They've cleared up now.
>He's still not comfortable with me seeing him nude, he
>spends bath time covering himself, I'm not sure how to
>overcome this.
>I find he's less angry but now we have more crying.
>
>He goes back to his mom next week, so I'm waiting for
>the fallout when she finds out.
>
>
>>What did you use for the spanking?
>>
>>If it is just hand, I wouldn't worry about it.
>>Your hand will out wear out sooner than their butt.
>>Although they do act like being slaughtered at times.
>>
>>
>>>Thank you all so much for all the advice, I'm taking
>>>it all on board and trying to work with it.
>>>
>>>I had them both in the tub together, the 10 year old
>>>kept covering himself with his hands. The 7 year old
>>>really didn't care, he found it fun having a
>playmate.
>>>
>>>The 10 year old has bruises on his bottom, should I
>be
>>>concerned about this, he has said they hurt when he
>>>sits, but I'm not sure if he's exaggerating for
>>>sympathy? The 7 year old has only had 1 good
>spanking,
>>>he seems to be smart enough to stay in line.
>>>
>>>I was going to let the 10 year old text his moma but
>I
>>>think it might be too soon. He still has a lot of
>>>anger on display.
>>>I'm going to start adding a massage to their bedtime
>>>routine.
>>>And I might take the suggestion uptread and buy them
>>>reins. But getting them on each day will be a battle.
>>>
>>>Thank you all.
>>>
>>>>It all sounds like the usual pushback you get during
>>>>the first Introductions, it will get easier for you
>>to
>>>>judge what he needs as you get into the routine. You
>>>>should start using the hairbrush now for spanking,
>>for
>>>>both boys.
>>>>Start bathing them together now to, you don't need
>to
>>>>actively wash them yet but definitely start getting
>>>>them used to being supervised and sharing the tub.
>>>>
>>>>Keep it up Mama you are doing great 👍.
>>>>
>>>>>I took the advice here, noted all bad behaviour and
>>>>>did a big spanking before bed. There was a lot of
>>>>>dramatics, tears and screaming, is this normal at
>>>>>first? I was a bit worried the police would be
>>called
>>>>>by a neighbor.
>>>>>His brother (the 7 year old) kept asking if he was
>>>>>okay.
>>>>>
>>>>>The 10 year was really uncomfortable with me seeing
>>>>>his bottom, I assume he will get used to this as it
>>>>>becomes routine.

The best way to get them used to it is to make it all party of the everyday routine. The more you do it the more it will be normalised, the emotions over it all will then settle down.

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