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Date Posted: 16:31:02 10/11/24 Fri
Author: Gavin
Subject: Re: 27m unfair punishment HELP!
In reply to: Jeff 's message, "Re: 27m unfair punishment HELP!" on 11:51:18 10/11/24 Fri

>>>>>>Hi So I’m 27 m and still live at home with my
>>>>>>parents. Recently we had a big family gathering
>and
>>>I
>>>>>>got in trouble because I made fun of my nephew
>>>>who’s
>>>>>>4 for still being in pull-ups training pants and
>>>>>>having accidents and pooping his pants. What I
>said
>>>>>>wasn’t even that bad but it ended up making him
>>>>cry.
>>>>>>Everyone was really mad at me and my parents said
>>as
>>>>>>punishment I have to wear fricken diapers for the
>>>>next
>>>>>>week. AND USE THEM!! They said I can’t use the
>>>>>>bathroom at all. My bratty nephew thinks it’s
>>>>>>hilarious since technically pull-ups are better
>>than
>>>>>>diapers and I don’t know what to do. I told my
>>>>>>parents I’m 27 but they said I’m still under
>>>>their
>>>>>>roof so I have to follow their rules. How do I
>>>>>>convince them they are being insane??
>>>>>
>>>>>Well, why exactly do you feel your parents are
>being
>>>>>insane? You were mean to your nephew and made him
>>>cry.
>>>>>Is there a different punishment you feel would be
>>>more
>>>>>fair? I know you think what you said wasnt that bad
>>>>>but something minor to you can feel like a really
>>big
>>>>>deal to a 4 year old.
>>>>>
>>>>>Just to clarify, have your parents obtained any of
>>>the
>>>>>diapers or other supplies yet? Or did they simply
>>>>>announce it at the family gathering? Have your
>>>parents
>>>>>typically been strict like this, so you know they
>>>>>werent just kidding? Any idea how other family
>>>>>members at the gathering feel about your parents
>>>>>plans? Because if they are in agreement, it's going
>>>to
>>>>>be harder to convince your parents they are going
>>too
>>>>>far.
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>
>>>>It’s insane because I’m 27 and don’t belong in
>>>>diapers and I especially don’t belong in full
>>>>ones…… I don’t think I deserve a punishment at
>>>>all if I’m being totally honest. Yeah they’ve
>>>>gotten the stuff it came two days later in the mail
>>>>and I’m just sitting here trying to find out how
>to
>>>>convince them they are crazy.
>>>
>>>Well the fact they have the diapers ready suggests
>>>they aren't backing down. Could you tell what kind or
>>>brand they are? Have your parents or relatives ever
>>>used somewhat unothodox punishments like this
>before?
>>>I'm sure you could tell them you don't feel like you
>>>deserve a punishment but I doubt it would change
>their
>>>mind. No matter how strongly you feel someone your
>age
>>>shouldn't have diapers, your parents obviously feel
>>>otherwise.
>>>
>>>Perhaps you could nicely ask your parents to explain
>>>their reasoning more. Such as why they feel a
>>>punishment is necessary, what they hope to accomplish
>>>by having you wear them. Is this just for making fun
>>>of your nephew or have they been frustrated with you
>>>for other things too. How do they hope you will act
>>>differently going forward?
>>>Things like that.
>>
>>
>>It’s all just so stupid. I mean do you think I
>>deserve this?? And idk the brand they came overnight
>>in the mail in a big brown box
>
>I don't know your parents and I wasn't at the
>gathering. So it's hard for me to say if you deserve
>it. But even if I said you clearly didn't, I dont see
>how that would change your parents mind.
>I do feel that your comments about saying the
>punishment is crazy or stupid, and that you're too
>old, are not going to persuade them. They must feel
>you will behave better or learn from this experience
>somehow.

A 27 year old doesn’t deserve poopy diapers…..

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