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Date Posted: 19:57:46 05/24/01 Thu
Author: just someone
Subject: Re: Can I have advice please?
In reply to: the_atomic_lesbian 's message, "Re: Can I have advice please?" on 14:44:44 05/23/01 Wed

thank you for replying to me. your advice was very usefull. i hope you have a wonderful day. thanks for being kind to me.

>
>get SELFISH! that's the best advice i can give you.
>sure it might be hard to do what you want at first,
>but eventually people will respect your feelings more,
>if they don't tell them to go to hell. selfishness
>isn't such a bad thing, in case your wondering. it's
>actually quite healthy to put yourself above other
>people, unless it's your own children... the only
>exception.
>i say take, take, take for awhile. you deserve it.
>
>the_atomic_lesbian
>>Normally i am the one others go to for advice and
>>comfort but I have been feeling in need of it myself
>>lately. I feel like a doormat. My giving no bounds. I
>>can't stop myself. I hear my friends cry and their
>>friends cry and I run to them with my arms open and
>>ready to help out all that I can. I love to help
>>people but I think my friends take advange of me. They
>>never want to hear my problems or provide a shoulder
>>for me to cry on. I'm not sure if I would be
>>comfortable in that rule. I feel exposed when people
>>find out my problems. I want healthy relationships. I
>>want equal giving and sharing. It never works that
>>way. I give all and get nothing. I'm sad.

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