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Subject: Re: Comments made by dyslexic professional

Author:
Ray

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Date Posted: 21:29:02 09/06/12 Thu
In reply to: Dionne 's message, "Comments made by dyslexic professional" on 17:07:57 01/26/12 Thu

I do not think it is ever helpful to call a child lazy.
If your child is truly dyslexic, what he is doing is simply his way of dealing with how frustrated he feels. Instead of feeling guilt, how about using your mother's instinct. If you have coddled him, then slowly change your behavior. Feeling sorry for him is OK, just don't show your feelings in front of him. His emotional strength is tied closely to yours. Instead of putting the blame on him, help by encouraging him. When he tries, when he does good, when he enjoys learning, let him know by saying "You must really be proud of yourself for doing that. I know that I am." Next, take what he does best outside of school work and develop that skill so he can feel good about himself. Next, make sure your school understands his needs and will help him. However, the school cannot and will not do everything to help him. This means finding a special tutor who will work with him. Br strong, be courageous, and continue to be a loving, encouraging mother who believes in her son. Start by giving him one responsibility around the house until he gets it right and does it consistently; then add another little one. Become the expert on dyslexia. You can become a student of the internet where you can find all kinds of good information that will help you help your son. God Bless! If you will send me your email, I will send you an electronic book (ebook) I am working on called Dyslexia: 101 Ways To Make Life Easier."

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Re: Comments made by dyslexic professional	Terri	16:54:59 01/12/13 Sat

Re: Comments made by dyslexic professional	Terri	16:56:27 01/12/13 Sat