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Date Posted: 08:08:43 12/03/99 Fri
Author: Terry
Subject: Re: Men's idea of "communication"
In reply to: Mavis 's message, "Men's idea of "communication"" on 07:54:34 12/03/99 Fri

> Good morning!
>
> I just heard Al say that men want to talk about what's
> wrong with them, not what's wrong with the
> relationship, as he says women do. I can understand
> that if there is a problem (such as the guy who's
> grandmother just died. She should concentrate more on
> his feelings). But at the same time, why do men feel
> that they can tick you off royally, but that at
> bedtime, all should be forgiven and the woman should
> just "get over it" and supply their sexual
> gratification? That's the problem I had with my
> ex-fiance and he still doesn't get it!!
>
> Thanks

My ex hubby was similar.. only it was when his friends came around.. he could have been not talking to me for a week..(usually cause he suddenly got mad about something that happened a year ago..sometimes I never knew why).. but when "our" friends came over.. he would try to come over and put his arm around me.. and be all lovey..
I didn't have to worry about the sex part.. he wasn't very interested in that.. once a year.. once every 6 months..
(one of the problems with alcholoics)..

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