Date Posted:16:39:17 01/11/03 Sat Author: R. Scott Subject: Re: me too In reply to:
alicia l
's message, "me too" on 00:24:06 07/22/01 Sun
Well, I am the same height and weight as you are and I have not allowed anyone to "use" me for attention. I have however been in situations whereby the relationship did not work out, either because of poor timing or I realized he was not the one for me and I moved on. If you feel used by anyone (and believe me plenty of thin women have been used) you need to take your feelings and problems to God and stay in his presence until you are strong. Leave the men alone until that time. Any man who would use a woman regardless of how she looks, is a coward. Hold on to that and move on. Obviously any man who has to seek sex from someone on the side of "using" a person, can not get gratification from the one he "thinks" he would rather have. What does that say about him? Stop being so down on yourself, where you have a few extra pounds, they have a great character flaws.I have learned in life that people who hurt others to make themselves feel better, don't really like themselves. Besides, if you are single, God has not ordained sexual encounters for you with anyone. Tell him he has to talk to your "FATHER" before dating you anyway! ;-) Best wishes with you new attitude.
