Lying *Rant* -- THE LOUNGE OF VERBAL VENGENCE

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Date Posted: 12:02:27 08/26/13 Mon
Author: Vice Verser
Subject: Lying *Rant*

There's this other thought I've been having lately that I'm writing down 'cause I don't know if I would get a real answer or response that would do me any good. I can get real nervous aroud groups of people or around new people. I was wondering if I would be more comfortable if I was to really just be myself unapologetically.
I also was thinking, when I say something just to make a person feel better or just do certain things a certain way to not be rude if that's a serious lie. Also, if I like someone and I'm not showing it or saying it....is that a serious form of lying, is it a form of lying?. Sometimes I wonder if I can go an entire day without lying.
Then someone will ask me a question in a way where I can hear it in their voice that they want a certain answer. That's so unfair in my opinion to ask a question and give it away in your tone that you want the other person to answer a certain way. I do it myself sometimes.
Sometimes circumstances beg that we lie and it's no longer a matter of how honest a person you are. It's like someone or a group of people gave it away that they wanted to hear a particular answer or statement and it's like you didn't want to let them down. Like it'd be better for them to hear what they wanted to hear in that moment regardless of what turns out to be true later.

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