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I have learned from my own experience that spoiling someone isn’t the right thing to do. There is no growth without work and there is no wisdom and discipline without hardships. The life around us and where we are today is a learning and growing experience and an all-powerful creator very much knows this. Only a weak God without wisdom would go out and spoil his children and allow his plans to get ruined, even if it’s for a little while. Only a weak-God who is not in control would allow his plan to change. When one is in complete control, there is no loss of control over purpose. I may not know what God is, but I have learned from my own experience that this power can foresee things and is always in control, ALWAYS. Everything is going according to plan and there is nothing that can be done to change that. People look out unto their lives and they face problems and hardships and don’t realize that they can change that around and that we ourselves are to blame for our hardships in the end. We have the power to make ourselves happy or make ourselves miserable. We have that POWER because we are the ones who are in control of our lives. I see too many times that people become overwhelmed with problems and don’t learn and move on. They see everything in their lives as either a win or a loss, but fail to see what the experiences and problems are really for – learning and growing! That’s why you’ll see people stuck in a cycle where they not only don’t get anywhere in life, but the same pattern starts to repeat itself over and over throughout the life. What these people need to do is face the problem, lean from the problem, change what needs to be changed and move on. This is the evolution of personal growth! I know from my own experiences in life that this is true. I’d have the same problems resurface over and over simply because I didn’t learn from them and moved on and instead, I was stuck in the same mind-set putting out the same thoughts and that’s what I attracted back to myself. That’s why I always had the same problems come up again, over and over. Lately, I learned a new lesson in my own life. I tried to change and rid the problems in my own life but I failed to do so because I failed to change myself. That was the key. I wasn’t growing because I tried to deal with things without going to the key which truly could rid of things which was myself. The problems I was facing and having in life where like a mirror reflection of the weakness in my soul that needed to be fixed. It’s like the weakness we have within ourselves manifest themselves as problems and it’s a sign that we need to change something about ourselves. I’m not perfect and I still make mistakes and from time to time yes, I do get angry at problems and feel pity over them but I now try to stop myself from that because I know better. I have learned that the problems I have are no accident and I must face them as a learning experience in order to better myself as a person so I can move on and grow as a human being. Today, any problem that comes my way, I try to ask myself what it is trying to say. Because I am learning that the problems I have in my own life, are telling me that I need to work on something about my soul or change something about myself. This has become my conquest in life, to better myself in life and never set a limit to what I can do. That’s why when I look back upon my own life, I have realized that the problems I have faced are not only no accident, but I am grateful for them today because they have made me stronger and more disciplined as a person and it’s just the fact that when the real learning came into play in life is when I had/have problems! And when I over came problems, my soul grew stronger as a result. That’s the connection that I have seen. Those who overcome problems, are the ones who change themselves and grow stronger. Today, I see what they have done, instead of looking back at them and feeling sorry for myself and seeing myself as a victim. We are only victims if we think we are. Through what I have learned in my own experience in life, I have learned that this little existence and what is going on is no accident at all, an immense and incredible power is behind it and it knows what it was doing and what it is doing. I can’t even seem to comprehend this power at all when I think at the immensity of it, just for the simple fact that it takes an infinite genius beyond anything we can comprehend, to do all this. |
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