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Date Posted: 10:35:00 04/04/00 Tue
Author: Gem
Author Host/IP: r-186.211.alltel.net / 166.102.186.211
Subject: Re: Really down..possible trigger
In reply to: Anna 's message, "Re: OK--found it" on 19:00:27 04/03/00 Mon

My niece and sister-in-law have been at it again. Now, I received a nasty e-mail from my niece--and she was furious with me. She tried to be nice--but it came off--rather ugly. I really blew up at her--in my e-mails. I forwarded her all the e-mails I had sent to--my (both) sister-in-laws.

Gossip abounds on my husband's side of the family. Do you know once--I had sent invitations to his family, when my husband graduated from school. My sister-in-laws got pissed off at me--because you know why?? I forgot to put--(thier names) on the outside of the envelopes. I had thought it would be understood everyone was invited. One mistake--and they never showed up!! I think, they go out of their ways to make my life a living hell.

Well, I wrote back to her--and said (Yes, I am ssoo---evil, and you have every right to hate and despise me!!--So go right ahead!!). I told her, she pissed me off big time, and I wouldn't be writing to the Shafii's anymore by e-mail or phone.

My one sister-in-law understood, I was falling apart--and wrote me a nice letter--to hang in there. The ohter one--just gossiped with my niece--them two stick together no matter what. My other sister-in-law--was the one who told her, I had forwarded her e-mail to her--and blew the whole thing out of proportion. I blew up at her too. My husband says, I didn't do anything wrong. He says, their (***iches) and leave them alone.

Right now I am having a hard time--keeping my husband together. He has been ill, having panic attacks and when I came home Sun. nite--he was crying, and I fell apart too. He doesn't cry very often--and it hurt me, to see him in such pain.....and I don't understand why no one in his family even cares.?? Their just pissed off about something that is really stupid.....Is it just me--or what???

I have decided I can't do anything more--than leave it alone and focus on myself and him right now....and damn--the rest.

I wouldn't mind if someone says a prayer for us--because I am so far down, I can't see the sky anymore.

Luv to all Gem

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