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Subject: 拍拖與戀愛(重貼)


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阿寬
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Date Posted: 22:44:40 11/19/01 Mon

剛看過阿寬的散文,他對拍拖和戀愛有以下見解.


拍拖跟戀愛不同,兩者分別在拍拖可以不認真,

參與者可以說他們不在戀愛.

我們不會說自己正在談一場很[散]的戀愛,卻會說在拍散拖.

什麼是拍散拖?大概是指有赴異性約會,彼此都明白這種約會的性質,

大家對相方都有好感,但不至於愛上對方.

散拖代表分分鐘可以散,沒有承諾,而且同期可能會與其他異性約會.

拍過散拖的男女,未必會把對方列入曾愛過的名單中.

拍拖用的是時間,戀愛用心.

拍拖是開心的,但戀愛未必開心.

戀愛最叫人動心的,可能是投入之後那種不由自主,那份為對方的忐忑,

根本不是一個開心的過程.


多謝阿寬!
你使我明白到...我一直以來的立場.

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