等與被等的立場 (重貼)　 -- eassy

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Subject: 等與被等的立場 (重貼)　

Author:
然

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Date Posted: 22:50:13 11/19/01 Mon

被愛,是非常幸福的!

那麼 [被等] 又是不是同樣幸福呢?

有人默默地等待著你,盼望你回心轉意,那是多麼的幸福!!

因為,你是這段感情的主宰,你可以選擇挽留或者放棄.

而等你的人,卻要承受著患得患失的壓力了.

但有時,被等的人也會很辛苦,心情總是忐忑不安的.

尤其是女孩子,很多時都會對自己的立場混淆了.

她們會覺得做女孩子的應該乖乖地等待自己心愛的人,

相反主動的去尋回愛人,好像太沒矜持了.等待是最懦弱而偉大的行
為!

等待要承受痛苦,寂寞和犧牲. 我認為最痛苦的不是心靈上的孤寂, 而是對青春的犧牲.

在等待的期間,你身邊可能會有些條件不錯的男人,

見你久久未有著落,就向你展開追求.

然而,你卻只想與他們維持朋友的關係,又不想傷害他們.

無可奈何的,他們與你的緣份確實是偏差了少許,這個差錯令你們不能在相交點配合.

結果你只好避開他們的關心與溫柔吧!

而且,與其和一個沒有感覺的男人一起,我寧願獨守空房!

當有一天你知道,你一直等待著的男人,原來也一直等待著你,你會沒好氣的說:

[ 你怎麼不早點對我說! 害我白等了一個世紀!]

哈! 有沒有聽過正負定律呢?

如果雙方都是擔當[負] 的角色,那就永遠都不能互相吸引了!

但我認為, 主宰這段感情的責任,應該由男方來擔當吧!

女性總是優柔寡斷的動物 !　
　

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Re: 等與被等的立場 (重貼)	大傑	01:02:21 05/10/03 Sat