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Date Posted: 05:22:23 05/04/01 Fri
Author: cherbourg
Subject: Re: Question
In reply to: Sirod Nayrb 's message, "Re: Question" on 04:13:46 05/04/01 Fri


On the contrary, i think ¥ÍÂ÷ is more painful.
For ¦º§O, it is something you cant control. You realize that no matter what, you can't see, meet, hear, touch, feel...ect the person again. Your hope is blocked already. Since yYou know there is nothing you can do to bring the person back, although you are painful, you can accept it.

But for ¥ÍÂ÷, it is something you can control. You know you still have the chance to see, meet, hear, touch, feel...ect the person again, because he's in somewhere, alive. BUT you cant, you just cant meet him. You know there is something you can do to bring him back, but that "something" is either useless, or unable to be done by you, and that you can end up simply hoping, or doing nothing. I think that deepens the pain.

actually, the definition of ¥ÍÂ÷ and ¦º§O is too ambiguous here in this context. What causes death? What is the reason for part? There can be big differences.

BUT anyway, for me
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>>¥ÍÂ÷ÁÙ¬O¦º§O¸ûµh­W?
>I think ¦º§O ¸û ¥ÍÂ÷µh­W.
>The people in the latter case may meet again, although
>something has been changed, but it's impossible in
>the former case. Also, the feeling is much longer
>lasting in the former case.

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  • Re: Question -- «nÆZ, 14:19:29 05/04/01 Fri
  • Re: Question -- cherbourg, 19:52:23 05/04/01 Fri

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