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Subject: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Greg
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Date Posted: 11:59:57 08/22/09 Sat
 I am twenty-seven and have not lived with my parents since I was twenty-two. My mother always insisted when I was growing up that I needed an enema. I was either grouchy or sullen or my insides needed a cleaning. Nearly every time i stop by she asks if I'm staying regular or maybe my insides should be cleaned out. When I moved out she gave me a Cara fountain syringe. I have it hanging from a hanger in my closet. Today I stopped by and she was giving my seventeen year old brother an enema and told me now that the bag was out it would be a good time to clean me out. I should get out of my clothes. Does anyone else have a mother who still questions them about bowel regularity and the need for an enema even though they don't live home. I have a twenty-two year old sister who lives home and she still gets enemas from my mother. After the enema worked on my brother she told me to get out of my clothes. This was for my own good. She had that tone of voice that I knew it was senseless arguing with her so I got undressed and let her give me the enema. For some reason she told my brother she thought he needed another one. Got me why.
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[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
George C
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Date Posted: 12:29:32 08/22/09 Sat
Greg, I suggest that you accept her invitations whenever you can. You're here because you have the fetish, and who else do you know who's so willing to turn you on? Were I in your position, that's what I'd do. Several times, in my adult years, I coerced mother into giving me enemas, but the opportunities weren't that many. And now, she's gone, and I have no one.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
john
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Date Posted: 12:58:27 08/22/09 Sat
i was touched by your post, george...and i am truely sorry for the loss of your mother.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Barry
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Date Posted: 15:58:43 09/02/09 Wed
I second John's advice. I have convinced my mother to give me several enemas over the years but she has never offered. Consider yourself lucky!

[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
George C
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Date Posted: 13:34:22 08/22/09 Sat
Thanks, John. I'm still married -- 60 years last June -- but my wife doesn't want to give me enemas anymore and, as I'm sure you've found, giving them to yourself becomes more difficult as you age. We gave them to each other up until our early 60s, when we took separate rooms because of night-time peeing, snoring, restlessness . . Hey, you name it.

Mom was clumsy in my childhood, and nearly ran me through with an infant rectal syringe, so I never let her give them to me until adulthood. By then, I had slain all my dragons, and was willing and able to coerce her into giving me two or three, and, by then, I enjoyed them all, of course.

I still wish I had lost my childhood fears in childhood and let her give me more than a couple. Her clumsiness gave me my fetish, after all.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Ash
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Date Posted: 19:56:01 08/22/09 Sat
Greg, I'm in a similar situation, though it sounds like my mom isn't as determined as yours. Me and my younger brother both got plenty of enemas growing up, and although it's rare nowadays I'm still sometimes on the receiving end! I'm 24 and have moved out, though I still live close to home - my brother's nineteen and still living at home. I think my mom's theory is that boys don't pay enough attention to their health and even though we're grown-up she still has to keep an eye on us, not having any sisters I can't say. My mom doesn't always bring up the subject of my bowels, but she'll suggest an enema if she feels I need it. Sometimes I agree, sometimes I don't, and to be fair if I say no she doesn't press it. My brother does still get frequent enemas though, and he doesn't have the luxury of saying no.

My last enema from Mom was about 6 weeks ago. I'd been out the night before and drunk a bit too much, but went over to the family home anyway for the day. I felt pretty lousy and I wasn't really in the mood for conversation, which Mom soon picked up on. When I flopped on the couch that was it, she asked me when I'd last gone to the bathroom, I said yesterday morning. Not convinced, she pulled my T-shirt out of my belt and lifted it to feel my stomach. She said "Your tummy feels a bit full, honey...", I said I was fine. She said "Well, I'm not sure, I think you need an enema, okay?" I just gave a noncommittal grunt. Mom felt my stomach a bit more and said "You go upstairs honey and take off your boots, jeans and underwear, I'll be up in a minute." And so I got a "good cleanout", which didn't cure my headache but I admit I felt a bit fresher.

So I suppose Greg you have to ask yourself if you really mind. I'm not hooked on enemas and don't have a bag or anything in my apartment, but I admit there are times when I'm happy to give in and allow my mom to give me an enema. Sometimes I enjoy the attention and feeling like a little boy again, it's nice to forget the responsibilities of adulthood if only for a half hour in my childhood bathroom. And as I say, it's always up to me whether or not she gives me one. Me and my brother don't talk about it so I don't know how he feels.

How do you get given your enemas Greg, if you don't mind me asking?
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Steve50
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Date Posted: 00:01:50 10/15/09 Thu
Ash, Why can't your brother say no at nineteen years of age. What would happen if he just refused?
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Ash
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Date Posted: 20:25:43 10/16/09 Fri
It's a fair question. I never refused myself when I was my brother's age as I quite enjoyed them, but I'm fairly sure Milo's not so fond of them. He still gets them once a week, and I assume it's the same weekly session I had back then - 2 quarts warm and soapy, then a tummy massage while holding it for a few minutes, followed by a warm plain water rinse enema with no set amount...Mom just kept going with the rinse until my tummy started to get a bit swollen and decided that was enough. As I say, we don't discuss it but I'd imagine that's what he gets. That stopped for me when I turned 20, it'll be interesting to see if she does the same with him.

I guess Milo could refuse them but I don't know what would happen. He had an argument with Mom a few years ago about his enemas and said he wasn't having any more. He got a spanking for his trouble and I don't think it changed anything anyway. I figure he thinks they'll stop soon, as they did for me, and from then on he'll get to choose. Two weekends ago Mom suggested she give me an enema and I "reluctantly" said OK, as I was happy to have one. Afterwards I had a shower in the other bathroom and went to get my clothes back from the chair outside us kids' bathroom. Lined up next to my jeans and boots I wasn't surprised to see Milo's jeans and sneakers too, he was in there getting his weekly cleanout LOL!
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steve5010
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Date Posted: 23:47:17 10/16/09 Fri
Ash, your mom seems like a strict, no-nonsense woman. How old was Milo when he got that spanking? Was it bad? Was that his last one?

He does not enjoy the enemas as you do. Has he ever said he felt better after after getting one? I suspect that your Mom will do the same with him, and stop at 20.
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Ash
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Date Posted: 11:29:02 10/17/09 Sat
Tough but fair is how I'd describe my mom. She's very generous and does spoil Milo a little bit with allowances, nice clothes, DVDs and things - same as she did with me before I moved out - but you don't argue with her, and our health has always been something where she has the final say. Throughout my teen years enemas were something which just happened, over breakfast of a weekend Mom would often tell my dad "I'm giving Ash and Milo their enemas later" or "I'll get the boys cleaned out this morning." or something, there was no question over it.

Spankings were rare for us, usually we were grounded or banned from the TV but we were told a spanking was a childish punishment for a childish act. That spanking was when I was about 21 and a year before I moved out, so Milo would have been sixteen at the time. The 3 of us were clearing up after breakfast and I forget the exact circumstances now, but it blew up after Mom told him he was getting an enema that morning and he said no, he was going downtown to meet some other kids. It sort-of built up from there, they started shouting at each other and by the time I'd finished clearing the table it was getting bad. Finally he told Mom to "screw off" and that was that. She whipped open Milo's belt, pulled his jeans down before he could react and dragged him over her lap. He fought it but Mom got her leg locked over his and that was that. Having experienced it myself I know she's thorough - she only ever used her hand on us but after 20-odd strokes it must be as bad as with any paddle. By the end Milo's butt was bright red and he had begun to cry. I gave the poor kid a supportive smile but I knew he had gone just a little too far. That was his last spanking I witnessed but I know he got at least one more - about 6 months later I came home one evening and my dad told me not to make any noise as "Milo's in bed early with a hot bottom" for running up a huge phone bill. Maybe he had others, I don't know - my own final spanking was at 15 for being caught smoking, that was the end of them.

Myself I usually felt better after getting an enema, but I don't know about Milo. He's never said so but then I've never asked, maybe I should but I don't think he feels the same as me. I'm going home for the day tomorrow, doubtless he'll be getting one today or tomorrow. Our enemas were always private and not discussed, but you've made me curious now.
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Author:
Steve
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Date Posted: 23:40:07 10/17/09 Sat
Running up a huge phone bill would get most kids a hot bottom. Who spanked him, Mom or Dad?

Did you or Milo ever get an enema from someone other than your mother? In the hospital for example?
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Author:
Ash
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Date Posted: 13:30:54 10/18/09 Sun
I wasn't there, but it would've been Mom who spanked him, she was the bad cop and Dad didn't get involved LOL. I got my fair share too but Milo was (and is) the prankster of us two and he ended up with a hot bottom more often than I did. I've never been given an enema other than by Mom and I doubt he did either. We were both healthy kids anyway, apart from the annual checkup we've not had much. Milo's never been in a hospital for anything since he was born and I've only been in once - I had my appendix taken out when I was 12. Didn't get an enema though.

Went home for a bit early this morning and found Milo watching TV. I went and filled up the windshield washer on the car and when I came back in the TV was off and he was gone. I guessed Mom was cleaning him out for the week, the bathroom door was shut and Milo's jeans and Timberland boots he'd been wearing just now were on the chair. It was half an hour before he and Mom came out so it sounds like he gets the same as I used to. Mom didn't offer me one, but I wasn't in the mood anyway. I almost asked Milo about his enema but chickened out LOL.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Steve
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Date Posted: 18:23:36 10/23/09 Fri
Ash, did you ask Milo about his enemas after all? What equipment does your mom use?

Has anyone else ever seen or commented on yours or Milo's clothes being left outside the bathroom and asked why?
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Ash
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Date Posted: 16:21:17 10/24/09 Sat
Hi Steve,
I did ask Milo about his enemas in the end. I wasn't sure if I should but he asked me to give him a ride back from two towns over the other night and I wondered if he'd resent the intrusion, seemed like the ideal opportunity though so I did. He was a bit surprised I asked but I reminded him I'd had all that too and was curious. He didn't go into any real detail but it was enough. He does indeed get them the exact same way I did in my teens - two quarts warm soapy water followed by a large rinse, given with him lying on his back with his legs up and spread apart. I remember that position well...my infrequent enemas these days are more dignified as I get them lying on my stomach, but Mom still has Milo on his back so she can massage his tummy, which she doesn't seem to think necessary at my age. Like I used to, he gets a firm deep tummy massage once his 2 quarts of soap is in, but unlike my ones back then, it seems Mom gives him a gentle tummy rub as she fills him. I never got that, maybe he gets the cramps more than me. Milo was starting to try and change the subject by now so I didn't go any further, only asked him how he felt afterwards - he says he feels hungry after a cleanout, same as me.

Mom used to have a bag for our enemas, but switched to the "pump" type when I was about 17, the one with a rubber bulb in the middle of a tube that you squeeze to pump the enema in. Milo started getting weekly cleanouts roughly the same time (he was about 12), he might have gotten a few from the bag but he's had most of his pumped into him LOL! I preferred the old bag.

Our clothes being on the chair outside the bathroom might've been a bit embarrassing, but Mom only ever gives us enemas when there's only immediate family in the house, who know anyway. I guess anyone who knows us boys could guess who was in there from what was left outside though! Me and Milo both wear jeans, so no clue there, but the shoes would give it away - I've always worn cowboy boots and occasionally Nikes, so if they were outside it was me in there. Milo wears biker boots or Timberland boots, sometimes Reebok sneakers, so that meant he was getting his cleanout. There was some crossover - I had a pair of Timberlands a few years back and Milo had a pair of cowboys when he was about 15 - but that was always my fear, that a friend would stop by when I was in there and put 2 and 2 together from my stuff outside.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Enema Whacked
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Date Posted: 11:43:13 08/23/09 Sun
It's truly laughable and so astounding how many mothers are so 'enema whacked and cracked' as are many others. It's an enema obsession and indoctrination without any sound science basis for its frequency of usage popularity except enema prone feelings and beliefs just like people who can't give up watching sports as often as possible I guess. Mothers or parents or grandparents who always insist on giving routine or frequent enemas to their kids or anybody else are really enema whacked and cracked extremely set in their ways!!!
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Jack
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Date Posted: 13:48:41 08/23/09 Sun
I thought my mother was an enema nut but I think Greg's mother leaves mine in the dust After college mine mostly left me alone. The horrible thing is though had my mother told me it was enema time my clothes would be taken off and I would be on my back on the bathroom floor. Once my mother insisted it wass hard to ignore her.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Matt
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Date Posted: 13:58:04 08/23/09 Sun
Either these posts are fantasy or the posters had really weird moms. My mom stopped giving me enemas when I was about 9 or 10. After that she would give me a laxative to take. My older sister stopped getting them also at the same age. When she was in the bathroom watching while I was getting an enema, she would always tell me how many years or months I had to go before I wouldn't have to get them anymore.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Tom
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Date Posted: 13:07:21 08/24/09 Mon
Hi Greg, do you remember any time, during your twenties, when your mother really forced you to submit to an enema? I mean a specially vivid remember.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Sue (UK)
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Date Posted: 15:56:47 08/24/09 Mon
Well, my parents frequently drop verbal hints that they still think my bowel habits are their business - but they've never got so far as actually trying to give me the treatment in adulthood.
[> [> Subject: Mom cares


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dorothy
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Date Posted: 05:51:59 08/25/09 Tue
Sue,

You 'ought to' let your Mom give you a few enemas, to see if you might benefit from that therapy.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Sue (UK)
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Date Posted: 16:43:01 09/18/09 Fri
I might as well tell this story here - just the other day it was my dad, for a change, who dropped the unwelcome hint. Having just come out of the bathroom where he'd obviously just done a big shit, he said - in his inimitable fashion - "It's OK, I've done my daily do...(pause)...have you done yours?" Half-joking in tone, but even he must know half-serious is too much. I said nothing - I hadn't done yet that day, but I couldn't let him know that. For good reason, as he went on to say: "Do you get constipated very often - I haven't noticed whether you've been doing a do recently?" It took a while for the significance of this utterance to dawn on me - at the time it snapped me into saying, "Well, I have - just sometimes I use the toilet at work, not that it's any of your business". He said "OK...but I know Melanie hasn't been doing properly lately, has she?" I said - "Yes, I'm aware of that, and in case you're wondering I have suppositories in stock if she ever needs one"
So, at the end of all that, he was just using it as an excuse to bring up my daughter's occasional constipation troubles which have flared up again recently. Well, mum and dad both know that if either of them ever lay a medical-gloved finger on her butt - that's it, the line has been crossed, they'll never see either of us again. They just conveniently forget sometimes.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Jamie
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Date Posted: 10:27:40 09/05/09 Sat
I'm seventeen and my mother still gives me enemas. Last night all i said was that my stomach was talking to me and she wanted to know when did i last go to the bathroom. She told me to get in the bathroom and she got a Fleet enema from the vanity. She said get your jeans and underwear off and kneel on the floor. She added vaseline to the nozzle pushed it up me and emptied. She took it out and said there's still a lot here I better squeeze it in you again. She did.

This morning she told me that I had been acting constipated for a few days maybe I should have a bag enema. she told me to get the bag and go in the bathroom and she would mix one. My sister said I don't need one and my mother said I didn't say you did. My mother came in with a pot and i held the bag and she filled it. She said get out of your loungers. I got on my back and she put the enema in me while telling me I acted like a brat when I wash having this problem. This should straighten me out. I am sure she will give me enemas unasked for as long as I live here. She has up to now.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


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Ash to Jamie
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Date Posted: 21:13:13 09/05/09 Sat
Hi Jamie, it sounds like your mom has a slightly different approach to mine! My mom has never used a Fleet enema on me, it's always a bag, and she was and is very gentle and caring while giving me an enema. Your mom sounds a bit too "businesslike" about it compared to mine! We do have some similarities though. As a teenager I did get a fair few enemas because I was misbehaving, and like you I was told that being constipated was causing my bratty behaviour. How does your mom give your enemas, is she gentle and careful or a bit rough?

It might bore you, but the one of these "behaviour/constipation" enemas that most sticks in my mind happened when I was about your age, seventeen. It hadn't been a good few days, I'd had a bad report from school, left my bike out in the rain, refused to take the dog out for a walk (well, it was raining!). That Saturday evening me and my brother fought over the TV and he ended up with several bruises, which I then lied about when Mom confronted me. This was too much, she told me. "Go to your room. NOW!!!" I did. She came up a few minutes later, "Get in the bathroom Ash." I went. She followed and shut the bathroom door, then continued; "I'm not having you behave like this, Ashley. You boys should know better, especially you. You always get like this when you're constipated, so I'm going to make sure you aren't. Get your boots, jeans and underwear off and lie down." She filled the bag with warm water and swirled what looked like a lot of soap into it.

I tried to buy some time, I didn't think I'd enjoy this one. Pretending they were tight I slowly tugged my cowboy boots off, pretended to fumble with my belt, pretended that the zipper on my jeans was stuck. Mom wasn't fooled and didn't calm down. Eventually I resigned myself to it and lay down on my back. Mom Vaselined my butthole and quickly and abruptly slid the nozzle in me, then pushed it firmly all the way in without wiggling it gently like she usually did. A fast flow of soapy water was soon filling me. Then the lecture started. "I'm sick of you behaving badly. I love you, Ash, but sometimes you're a brat and I've had enough of this bratty boy act. Sort yourself out." I started to cramp a bit. Normally Mom gently rubbed my tummy when this happened, this time she roughly massaged it instead and abruptly started the flow again. More lecturing continued - I'd better grow up, wake up and smell the coffee, work harder at school etc. Eventually the bag was empty. No usual tummy-rub while I retained it today, she whipped the nozzle out and left me to it. "Empty yourself and clean your teeth, you've got ten minutes to get your butt to bed." I did. The following morning, there were hugs, apologies and promises from both of us. I never got a bad behaviour clean-out again.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Paul
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Date Posted: 11:12:19 09/05/09 Sat
I would have enjoyed getting enemas in later years as awkward as it might have been. By then I was thoroughly indoctrinated into this fetish from the period from age 3 till 12 that she did give regular enemas. I do remember how much I hated it then but crave it constantly now. Very strange.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 05:46:24 09/30/09 Wed
To Paul - I don't think it is strange at all that you crave enemas now. Your emotional mind may say you "failed" by "losing it" at age 5, but you are well able to handle similar sized, or larger, enemas now. And I think it would not be just I, whom some may think has expressed some thoughts that are weird, but I would think anyone who would understand the psychology of the enemas you had as a young kid.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Dan
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Date Posted: 19:21:57 09/09/09 Wed
I got out of the army in July 1956 when I was 19. my parents picked me up at the train station in Newark. NJ and drove me home. Out next door neighbor took our picture in the backyard and I went to the room I shared with two brothers to change clothes. My mother came along and said after that train ride from Georgia she better give me an enema. Protests did no good. I went in the bathroom, took off my underwear, got on my back and got the enema. I got them whenever she wanted to give me one for the next six years that I lived home. She did not feel my age made it inappropriate.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Jamie
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Date Posted: 17:57:20 09/27/09 Sun
My mother nailed me a couple of hours ago. She gave my sister one yesterday who kept complaining she's always picked on. She said Jamie never gets them. My mother said he gets what he needs just as you do. My sister kept whining and my mother said you're not talking me out of it. She ended up getting one. She was so mad her eyes were red like she was crying.

I was watching the beginning of the Giants game with my father when my mother came along and said she wanted me in the bathroom. I said what for. My dad said you know what for. What does she ever want you in the bathroom for. Now get there. I went to the bathroom and my mom had the filled bag hanging from the door knob. She must have known for a while she was giving me an enema. I was still standing there when my mom came along and she said have you found a new way for getting an enema in you without taking off your clothes. I started undoing my shoes and my mom is saying when did you last poop. Give me a true answer. The way you played with your breakfast it wasn't yesterday. I saw you threw away most of your pancakes. Tuesday I guess. Why would you ever let yourself go so long. Were you getting the feeling. I said yes but I couldn't do anything. She said wasn't that a sign to tell me you needed help? I said I don't know. I hate getting an enema. She said you're talking like a five year old. I got my shirt off and my good pants that I had worn to church today. I folded them over the top of the shower door and then got out of my tee and dropped my plaid boxers and stepped out of them. I picked them up and held them in front of my wizzer which was stiff and my mother said put them on the hamper and you get on the towel. I sat down on the towel.

My mother said why do you keep acting like I can get an enema in you without access to your rear entrance. Now do it right. Lay back, pull your legs back and spread your cheeks. She greased my crack and put her finger up my hole. She said Jame your poop is like concrete. She called to my dad and said Jim, could you get the bottle of Dawn from the kitchen. He needs more then just salt in his enema.

My dad came with the Dawn and my mom squirted some into the top of the enema bag. She said the way he's packed he may need two. Maybe soap though will make him empty a lot so he doesn't need two. I'm not sure I will be able to get the pipe in him he's so packed. Jame, don't you have a stomach ache or a head ache. I said sort of. She said to my dad it might be easier if you held his legs back for a bit and let him spread his cheeks so I can easily get the pipe in him. My dad said push your legs back and he grabbed my ankles. My mom greased my crack and hole again. She opened the clip and squirted some of the enema on the towel and then pushed the pipe in me. Can you feel it. Yes. I am so glad she said. My dad said can you hold your legs up and back. I said I always do. He said I'm leaving then. Who"s winning i asked. The Giants he said.

My mother said you have to hold this as long as you can. I said I'm ready to let it out now. She said you better not. She picked the bag up from the doorknob and held it up high. This is empty. The longer you hold it the better you'll feel when it comes out. Soon I said I have to get up or I'm going to go on the floor. She said I'll leave you and come back to see how things went. She came back in ten minutes. I was still having little squirts coming out of me. She asked how did I feel. I said a lot better and I'm hungry now. I always feel hungry after an enema works. She said do you need another one? I said there can't be any more in me. She said I'll check tomorrow.

I heard her tell my dad to tell me how dangerous it is to let myself go that long and she made me a sandwich.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Mother Check
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Date Posted: 18:17:33 09/27/09 Sun
Its not so much the fact that all of you have an enema fetish, the real truth of all this, is that it was your mother who had a very strong enema fetish. As a young child, you were her enema toy/plaything and because of this, you also developed an enema fetish. Its a generation thing, your grandmother also had an enema fetish and you can be damn sure that your children will also have the same fetish.
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Author:
enjoysit
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Date Posted: 21:50:21 09/27/09 Sun
Sounds to me like his mom knew what she was doing to help him if he was a plugged up as he said he was. Mom always knew when I was in trouble, i.e., attitude, lack of energy, difficultly in eating. The bag, hose and nozzle always made things better. I always enjoyed holding back. Anal retentive? A couple of days later and the bag would be put to good use on me. Do I still enjoy enemas? Yes, of course I do. But now it is for fun rather than being plugged up. Although that does happen sometimes. Then the bag hangs for both pleasure and health. It is not clear that it is an enema fetish.
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Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 21:08:38 09/29/09 Tue
This has to be tough to be getting enemas through one's teens and early 20s by a person's mother. In all of these cases it has to be the event that triggers it, which in reality is a non-event: not having gone for a day, seeming listless, showing some irritation, etc. As a teen, maybe you are able to take the 2 quarts of the enema bag without too much discomfort, or maybe in some cases with a fair amount of discomfort (depending on how they are given). However, it has got to leave an impression that you are getting them, and virtually all other teenagers (particularly boys, since girls may get them around their periods) are not.

Mine had stopped around 10, and, except for one time of several day constipation, I only got them starting at age 5 when a doctor prescribed them for anytime I had a childhood illness. The main problem was that it was always a full 2 quarts I got, hung from a hook on the bathroom door 5 feet above me (thus inducing tremendous pressure), and sometimes with air still in the tube which really hurt. Although there were stops in the enema, I had to take the whole thing.

These really leave long lasting impressions.
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To Fred4
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Date Posted: 10:46:21 09/30/09 Wed
Fred4 speaks about the long lasting impression that his enemas left on him. It was these long lasting impressions that doctors deemed the enema to be a catalysts for children to develope an enema fetish and/or mental problems. The doctors and hospitals put a stop to this practice in order to save future generations this angst. Having followed Fred4 for several years, it is obvious that Fred4 has some mental health concerns due to his early childhood enema experiences. Based upon our research, Fred4 will live with this condition for the rest of his life.
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Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 20:22:02 09/30/09 Wed
These are very good observations, with one exception. One does not tend to be frozen in a position if totally accepting of what one feels and then asking what does that lead to next (I don't mean acting out irrational impulses, but accepting them and moving on). Yes, things do come up again, but in accepting them, one can move on to a fairly significant degree. I indicate what I felt and did years ago, and that gives me a better basis for life today.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Your reactions and exploring them


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Fred4
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Date Posted: 10:50:13 10/01/09 Thu
My comments here are about to be somewhat unfair. I will cover what an adult who takes multiple enemas in reaction to uncomfortable, frequent or unneeded childhood enemas gets out of that. It is unfair, because while I had these reactions in my early 20s, my dominant reaction was toward "perfect kids" who seemed to handle childhood enemas which I found I couldn't. I don't address that here, because that is a longer (and maybe more personal) topic.

So, what does one "get out of" taking enemas as an adult (young adult is fine) when you had the adverse conditions as a kid:

1. You now control the process entirely (or if you pass the process of having someone else give you enemas, you control, or think you control, that choice). Controlling the process yourself is entirely different than having someone else control that process on you.

2. Let's consider if in controlling the process, you want to make the process as comfortable as possible. You control the temperature, the volume, the height from which the enema bag is hung, clearing any air in the tube, what if anything you add to the water, stops when you get cramps and how you handle the cramps. You can control if you want to start with small volume and take successive enemas to make it more comfortable. As far as entry, you control the nozzle, or if you prefer colon tube, and what and how much lubricant if any you use.

3. If you couldn't handle large volumes as a kid and want to prove to yourself you can, you can start smaller and take successive enemas so each one becomes easier to take. Also, as an adult, your body can hold more. If volume objective was a reaction of your psychological mind set, you are far better able to achieve it.

4. If being "totally clean" inside is your objective, you can more easily achieve it (even though temporary, as future food is processed) through the above mentioned processes.

5. Enemas do create sexual reactions. As a teen or an adult, they are far more direct and apparent than as a kid when they may be somewhat present though more latent. You can stimulate those reactions as far as you want, and do what one may want subsequently if a totally clean rear end was the objective.


So, fine, giving yourself (or having someone else give you) enemas can meet any or all of the above objectives that weren't under your control or achieveable as a kid. It's virtually impossible in some cases to say don't take the adult enemas, and one might argue why not go ahead and do it. That could be the right answer to what one feels.

I would only maintain that I think that many people might find that while proceeding along that path, just ask yourself whether all of it is great. I think often it may not be. In those cases, at those times when you are less intensively driven to give yourself enemas, I'd suggest exploring that as far as you want to take that. I think that may lead to a process to overcome what might be the compulsive reaction. I don't go into that further, not because it shouldn't be gone into further - it definitely should be - but it may likely different from one person and background to another person and background.

I hope some people find these thoughts interesting.
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Your reactions and exploring them


Author:
Richard
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Date Posted: 11:22:54 10/01/09 Thu
Fred4 wrote a comment that contained the words, "Intensively driven." I believe that the correlation between taking, or giving someone an enema, is based upon a persons sexual urge. I know in my case, when my urge was extremely high, I was "driven" to go out and find someone to give an enema too. During psychoanalysis, the doctor said I was indeed driven, and this drive was severe enought to warrent medication. My mental condition was based on the fact that my earliest enemas, when I was just a baby and/or a young child, were forced upon me by both my father and mother. I could only get sexual satisfication, during the act of giving a very goodlooking person an enema. I think the above correlation also applies to many other members of this forum including, perhaps, Fred4.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Your reactions and exploring them


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Matt
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Date Posted: 12:22:53 10/01/09 Thu
Growing up I was given enemas in front of others. At the time there was no sexual conotations at that time since I was only 6 to about 9 or 10 years old when this happened. Many of the those watching were girls just a little older than, moms friend daughters, girl cousins and so forth. The sexual nature of these ordeals did not hit me until after puberty and brought the memories of the events happening. I would say I was 14 years old or so when re-living the enemas with the girls watching became sort of sexual for me. Was I driven to relive that again? No, there was no sexual urge to have that ever happen again to me. I presume for some and myself, the embarrassment of being exposed for the procedure had become sexual, but not in a way that I would want it to continue. In fact I was glad they were over when I reached about 10 or so, but thinking about the girls watching the whole process of getting an enema at 14 became sexual to me. I hope I didn't confuse anyone.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Another thought, Richard


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Fred4
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Date Posted: 07:42:24 10/02/09 Fri
Richard, I had another thought which most likely has occurred to you.

If one of the people who you have given enemas to sought them to contrast that with a painful childhood experience, and wanted gentleness and consideration in its administration by you, could you ask the same of them? They might well understand, and it might help the healing process for both of you. One thought, though, is that regardless of your attraction to that person, if it could be done for the restorative purposes for both of you, it might almost be better if it could be for that alone, and that any sexual relationship with that person, if it were to occur, would come later.

Just a thought.
[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Response to Matt


Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 08:37:06 10/02/09 Fri
Matt, Maybe I am misinterpreting your comments but I may be inferring them correctly.

Could the sexual response you felt be as follows: Okay, you were exposed naked to girls before 10, and were given enemas at that time. Your later reaction from age 14 on was that you wouldn't mind at all being exposed naked to an attractive girl around your age, and that you would particularly like it if she liked what she saw, and especially if she liked it in a sexual way. However, you would not want at all her attraction to you to be a main desire on her part to give you an enema. You wanted her attraction to you to be in its own right, just straight sexual attraction.

If so, I can't see anything more normal than that.
[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Richard's comments


Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 17:39:38 10/01/09 Thu
Richard, I don't know whether your psychoanalyst was or wasn't taking the easy road out by giving you medication. Like any field, I guess psychoanalysis has some really good people and some of various ordinary skills.

It's certainly normal for you to feel sexual attraction to attractive people. Usually that leads to a person wanting to have any of a number of ways of regular sex with them. Desiring to give them enemas is a bit unusual, but not so given what happened to you as a kid.

It may not be bad for you to break apart the source of those feelings.

One possibility is that you feel you were raped as a child by getting the enemas. You may feel great that someone you view as attractive wants them given by you, and not in a forcing or unpleasant way to them. It is a non-rape processing of a previous rape situation.

Another possibility is that as a result of your childhood enemas (and if anything else in your life), you have a low level of self-esteem. Here an attractive person enhances your self-esteem by agreeing to let you give them enemas.

Another is that you feel that your anus is a particularly vulnerable part of you, and that the highest compliment you could get from someone is to let you explore with their anus.

Maybe the whole process not of taking enemas as I had described but giving them as well for which I mentioned five considerations might have some of those considerations here as well.

It could be one or more, or all of these considerations, or maybe of others that causes you to have the attraction you have. There might be some value of your taking apart which of these is applicable and what the implications of that may be, to get closer to your underlying feelings.

One thought that may pass your mind was that after giving them an enema, they took it fine, while you didn't when you were a kid. The more appropriate reaction is their age when you gave them, and the way you gave them, compared to your reaction when taking them at that age and the same manner. It may be surprising that the reactions are not too different. If some seem to handle it better than others, that could be just differences in the size of people's colons. I don't think you would find much difference in how the bathroom smells after you eliminate your enemas than how it smells after they eliminate theirs; if there are, everyone experiences less and more smelly times.

It is not my intention, nor do I want to know, if these feelings you get are when you have not had any sexual release for some time. Virtually all people have libidos which have to be released from time to time. If you don't have any regular sexual outlets, then it would seem perfectly normal for you to masturbate at those times. That might help relieve (but obviously not eliminate) those strong desires.

There are a lot of ways you can look at your reactions that I think medication may just dull and not eliminate.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Jamie
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Date Posted: 18:43:42 10/01/09 Thu
I came in from school around 4 and my mom was already home.
She asked how I was and I answered what do you mean how I am. She said that answers my question. You haven't gone since Sunday, have you. I said don't you ever mind your own business.She said you need an enema again. I said I'm okay. She said we're not negotiating this. Go into the bathroom. I did and the half filled bag was hanging from the doorknob. She told me to get my clothes off. I said why don't you give me a chance to go. I have had the urge most of the day. Then why didn't you go in school? Too many people and not enough time. She said let's just get this over with. I stepped out of my boxers and got on the towel. She said you should try to go before you leave for school. I told her I usually don't feel I have to then. I've told you that. She put the pipe in me and let the enema flow. Before i knew it she was taking the pipe out of me and telling me to hold it as long as I could. I had to get up almost as soon as she took the pipe out of me. She said it is better if you hold it longer. I said do you want me to empty on the floor? I know she will be after me all of the time wanting to know if I went to the bathroom.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Matt to Fred
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Date Posted: 16:40:44 10/02/09 Fri
quote fred4: "Matt, Maybe I am misinterpreting your comments but I may be inferring them correctly.

Could the sexual response you felt be as follows: Okay, you were exposed naked to girls before 10, and were given enemas at that time. Your later reaction from age 14 on was that you wouldn't mind at all being exposed naked to an attractive girl around your age, and that you would particularly like it if she liked what she saw, and especially if she liked it in a sexual way. However, you would not want at all her attraction to you to be a main desire on her part to give you an enema. You wanted her attraction to you to be in its own right, just straight sexual attraction.

If so, I can't see anything more normal than that."

Thanks fred4 for your response. i am not sure what you wrote was exactly the feelings I had, but they do sound logical. I think though at 14 the sexual feelings I had were from the fact that when I was younger I was exposed to these girls from time to time. Having them gawk at me when my pants were pulled down and then put across my mothers lap, thinking they were watching all of this. I think the shame of it all became sexual to me in a way. Now I have thought what if the girls were boys instead, thinking that in no way had any sexual overtones to it like they were with girls watching. Saying all that, don't know if that is normal or not.
[> [> Subject: Fred4 to Matt


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Fred4
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Date Posted: 21:55:47 10/02/09 Fri
It's too bad that you felt shame toward the girls at age 14, though totally understandable. They saw this guy that just four years earlier they had seen naked getting an enema. Obviously you had absolutely zero to do with what happened to you at that four-year earlier time. Nonetheless, if you and they thought each other was good-looking at age 14, probably the earlier images would enter both of your minds. That alone would certainly not adversely affect your sexual feelings toward them. If for some of them that did not adversely affect their feelings toward you, then probably you might consider it a complement in a rather unusual way (but again, unusual not for any reason of your doing).

That still sounds like a completely normal response on your part, and maybe a bit more than casual (in a complementary way) on the part of those girls who at age 14 returned your interest.
[> [> Subject: Fred4 to Matt: Converse


Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 07:37:22 10/03/09 Sat
Matt, consider those girls who earlier saw you get your enemas and who at age 14 you felt a sexual attaction but it wasn't necessarily mutual: Maybe some of what you felt toward them was that they had seen you naked in what was also a very personal situation (getting an enema). It's not surprising that that alone could generate sexual feelings toward them on your part, even if otherwise you wouldn't necessarily feel a sexual attraction toward them; that strikes me as totally normal on your part.

If some of them had no sexual attraction toward you, that's not surprising, since there are a lot of people to whom one is not sexually attracted. If the absence of sexual feelings toward you by some girl was because she saw you get an enema, that's something for whatever reason was in her mind but not your responsibility.

Also, again back to your sexual feelings toward them: Not only had you had to appear naked before them four years or so earlier, but you had to be shown before them taking something as highly personal as an enema, and also encounter their reactions to your reactions while getting the enema. If that would stimulate your sexual feelings toward them four years later, that is a zero surprise event.

Again, your reactions seem totally normal, but the fact you had to have an enema performance before them four years or so earlier was not normal - however that latter was absolutely none of your own doing.
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Fred4 to Matt: Converse


Author:
Matt
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Date Posted: 10:54:50 10/03/09 Sat
Fred I understand fully what your saying. Honestly though, I don't think when I was 13 or 14 did I find the girls sexually attractive, it was a different kind of sexual attitude I had, it was specifically those girls, it was just that a girl had seen me as a younger child getting an enema.
I presume to some this whole thing is not a big deal since like my mom said, I was only a child.
To put another light on this and wonder how any male readers would of reacted to this situation.
When I was older, 13 and 14 or so, I had to attend a function like a wedding or something of that nature with my parents. I distinctly remember this happening on two occasions. Remember this is about 4 or so years after my mom stopped giving me an enema with her friends around or their kids. Saying that, the girls were now approximately anywhere between 16 to 18 years old when I was 13 or 14. I was at a wedding and one of the girls who had seen me get an enema was there also. I remembered who she was and kept a far distance from her and didn't want her to see me, but I was outside with a couple of other kids just talking and kidding around. This girl who was a friend of my moms came over from behind me, we hadn't seen each other in a few years. When you start to get older you don't go out with your mother as often as you used to, so after a year or so when the enemas ended, I didn't see her that much when her mom came over the house. She came over to me and said "you're Matt right?" My heart started beating a mile a minute, "I say yea" she said "Do you remember me?" I said "yes" her name was Chrissy or Kristy something like that, she was probably 16 or 17 years old. Then what I dreaded the most because there other kids there she came out with it, she asked me "Do you remember me watching you get an enema when you were little?" with a grin and a little giggle with it. The other 2 kids I was with looked at her and then me. You know the saying, if there was a hole near by, you want to jump in it and cover it up. I said softly "yes", she then said "you were so cute!" She then said "see ya" and walked away..one of the kids I was with didn't even know what an enema was. I also walked away from them and felt so embarrassed. This happened another time, but it was my female cousin who had watched me when I was younger get an enema. Almost the same thing as the first time with the other girl. After that, I tried talking my way out of going to these big affairs where these girls may be attending.
At 13 or 14 you just don't laugh it off as you would if you were an adult. I was still embarrassed by them saying that, especially when other kids my age were around.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Fred4 to Matt: Converse


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Matt to NWC
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Date Posted: 13:32:01 10/03/09 Sat
In my last post this line, "it was specifically those girls" should of read, "it was NOT specifically those girls"..maybe that would avoid some confusion in what I was trying to convey..

First, yes I do blame my mother for doing what she did, but then again, and remember this, at the time she had NO idea what she was instilling in me. I know, I could tell, she never thought giving me an enema with her friends around was in any way a big deal BEING the age I was. She had always thought that up until I was about 10 or so, I was her "baby". You get what I am saying? She had thought that no way what she was doing would have ANY effect on me, then or in the future. To her it was just a simple home remedy for what ails you.

What my life would be like if I never had an enema? Really don't know. As a child I knew what enemas were from hearing mom her friends and my aunts talk about them. It's hard to say, I probably would not be writing on here for one and those embarrassing moments when I got older would never of happened. Honestly though, I am no worse for the wear as they say. I cope and live with it. What can I say.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Further to Matt


Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 19:50:47 10/03/09 Sat
Matt, Sorry I'm a little slow in understanding the situation you felt (not in your relating it, but in my understanding), but I appreciate the discussion. I think I do understand now. (I also understand you handle things very well, as reflected in your attitude, and the mere fact of lingering feelings is probably solely as a result of what happened to you - not something to feel strange about.)

I can understand you felt like digging a hole when embarrassed by the girl at the wedding you attended. Teenagers often say things more to try to be funny or to generate a reaction, without thinking of the impact on the person affected. That sounds like that was the case then, and if she had proper consideration, she should not have said what she did. In fact, you say you weren't necessarily attraacted to the girls who saw you get enemas, because that had been an embarrassing situation.

Yet you say you did have sexual feelings at around age 14 caused by the earlier witnessed enemas. Any idea as to specifically why is speculation on my part, but intuitively I can understand that to be the case. Most people want sexual fulfillment, and if there is an event impinging on it, one becomes aware of it but has the sexual feelings nonetheless.

You and I have commented on our respective situations often enough on the site that we have an understanding of some of one another's reactions.

Maybe an event with related feelings, but entirely unrelated events, to me was as follows: As I've been over, I had much too massive enemas, though at a doctor's prescription when having a typical childhood illness. I felt some strong feelings, seemingly sexual at the time, when kids my age said they had no trouble taking enemas. I envisioned their enemas as the same size and type as mine (later analytically, but not emotionally, realizing they could not have been), but they (and later others who looked like them) seemingly to me handled it well while I didn't.

I was playing with one of these kids and others at his house one time, and had to go to the bathroom. In that bathroom, I saw an enema bag drying out on a hook on their bathroom door that was higher (implying greater enema pressure) than the high hook on my bathroom door from which my enemas were given. I felt especially weak-kneed, because that was further evidence to me that that kid did handle them better than I.

While I then, and later, had these attractions to both females and males who were or looked like these "perfect" kids, if I were pressed, would I want to have sexual relations with either the females or males? Delving a bit more grossly in my mind, I would conclude yes with the females, but they would not consider that with me since I was imperfect and couldn't handle the enemas they could. For the males, absolutely not (and I would have been grossed out at the thought), yet why the feelings?

I think the one similarity in our outlook was that the sexual feelings we felt were triggered by our respective enema situations as a kid. In my mind, there must have been something wrong with me that I couldn't handle the childhood enemas well, yet that later generated sexual feeling in me. At the same time, those sexual feelings were not fully rewarding, because that was not the right base upon which to build sexual feelings.

In the above, I may be speaking solely for my situation, and have yours totally wrong. If so, I very much apologize.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Fred4 to Matt: Converse


Author:
andre to matt
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Date Posted: 08:17:46 10/04/09 Sun
dear matt, I've got suppositories and enemas from my neighbour and her older daughter often in front of her younger daughter (same age as me, and my class mate) or other school peers until almost 18.

The most embarassing were the medicated suppositories given to me before being driven to school. I was teased during the ordeal and then the thing was shared by the daughter with everyone in the class.
[> [> [> Subject: Re: Fred4 to Matt: Converse


Author:
No Wonder Check
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Date Posted: 11:28:40 10/03/09 Sat
No wonder there are so many people that developed an enema fetish from their childhood enemas that their mother gave them. I don't think the mothers had a clue to what they were doing to their child. Has anyone thought what their life would be like if they had never had an enema?
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Fred4 to Matt: Converse


Author:
Agreed! (Amazed!)
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Date Posted: 07:00:32 10/04/09 Sun
You make such a really profound valid serious point and very interesting question hypothesis. I have struggled unsuccessfully with that very question for too many years unfortunately.
[> [> [> Subject: Follow on to above comments


Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 10:56:19 10/04/09 Sun
I think there have been some great points by others in the above topic.

A key one seems to be that there were never have been the follow-on stress if we were not given childhood enemas (or for Andre, suppositories). One of the comments to me above was that the unnecessary childhood stress was far worse than any alleged benefit (which benefit is truly doubtful) from the childhood enemas and that they were largely stopped after the 1960s as a result. I think that analysis may be right on target.

One thing that might be a benefit to those of us affected is to develop an assertiveness that of necessity could not have been realistic when a small kid subject to the enemas. One can start by picturing in your mind's eye if you had your adult's mind when subjected to the enemas. In my case, the second time I was prescribed an enema by the doctor for a childhood illness, I would have said something to the effect of, "The last one was horrible. How much water should I be getting in my enema, what is the appropriate temperature for that water, how high should the bag be above me so I don't get painful pressure, should the tube be cleared out of air first, and if I get cramps, should it be stopped until the cramp is fully dissipated?"

Obviously, I didn't ask, nor could I reasonably be expected at the very young age to ask, those questions. However, it is useful because because it can help to build one's assertiveness presently. Certainly if I were back in that position with my present mind but as a small child then, I would have asked those questions.

There were loads of actual (not theoretical as the above) missed opportunities along the way, which I use for observation, not, other than initially, kicking myself now. In particular, at one time one of my college roommates and I started a discussion on how we found childhood enemas uncomfortable, and he emphasized he even got one his senior year in high school. I really could have talked more frankly than I did about how I felt as a kid, especially the images I build up of others handling them perfectly; I doubt he would have thought me absurd.

(Matt, maybe you have thought of the wedding where that girl came up to you and embarrassed you about seeing you get an enema a few years back. I imagine you could now envision yourself instead taking her on the side after her comment and saying you were not the cause of her seeing you get the enema, you hated that situation when it happened, and that you wish she hadn't needlessly embarrassed you about it.)

The one situation though that I regret absolutely the most was that in high school I got very close to a girl with whom I felt incredibly close to on a personal basis, and toward whom I felt strong sexual attraction. This continued into the start of college, but then when that started to be reciprocated I just cut off. (Again, the situation for me was that as a kid I encountered other kids who found nothing unusual about their enemas, and yet mine were highly traumatic; I then put them and others who later looked like them on a pedestal while I viewed myself as flawed to have reacted to the enemas the way I did.) Okay, what happened with me and this girl, was that I thought didn't she see the flawed person I was, and that therefore unlike what I felt, mustn't she be similarly flawed? Crazy, I know, but I can see the emotional thought pattern I had.

I later married someone else, but still felt very strongly about this girl, who also married someone else. I once wrote to her a few years back, alluding to emotions grabbing me at the time which I would do anything to undo, but I wasn't specific.

I know this sounds totally crazy, but I feel I must close what I started, only giving the specifics of how my mind created "perfect" kids as my means of coping with the childhood enemas. She may think I may have totally lost my mind, but I would feel infinitely better to do that.

Sorry for the seeming craziness of this. I hope some readers can understand.
[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Follow on to above comments


Author:
Mycroft
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Date Posted: 11:33:31 10/04/09 Sun
Fred, you're not crazy. I stepped away from a perfectly wonderful lady because of (two) perceived "flaws" which might or might not have become thorns in a marriage. Too, as her husband has since died, I muse writing to her to carefully explore whether these "flaws" would have been actual impediments. The flaws were klismaphilia and an expectation of an early death.
We both grew up in the late thirties and early fourties. There's a possible double (and tragic) irony here, don't you think?
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: TWO FLAWS


Author:
samantha
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Date Posted: 12:24:21 10/04/09 Sun
Write to her - write to her, Mycroft.

You don't know what you might have missed, or from what you might have benefited. She would be thrilled to have you bring up, 'old times.'
[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To Samantha


Author:
Mycroft
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Date Posted: 10:07:25 10/05/09 Mon
I will write to her. Bless your heart for being sensitive to the possibilities. Perhaps something of interest to this forum will occur.
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
To Mycroft
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Date Posted: 15:15:28 10/04/09 Sun
Mycroft....I have been trying to get hold of you for a long time. As you know, you are my oldest brother and I would love to see you again. Dr. Livingston would also like to see you. Please get in touch with us as soon as possible. Sincerely, Your beloved brother, Sherlock Holmes, London
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Jamie
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Date Posted: 12:10:10 10/06/09 Tue
I went to the nurse in school today and told her I felt rotten. She said couldn't you be more exact. I said my stomach is upset, my head aches, my bones too. She took my temperature with an instant read thermometer in my ear. She said you don't have a fever. I said I'm just out of it. She called my mother's cell and they decided i could go home and i could drive myself. My mother asked to speak with me and told me she was asking my grandmother to look in on me. I said that i didn't need her. I would just sleep. My grandmother is even stronger in her belief that enemas are good for you than my mother is. I heard one of my aunt's say that mom believed an enema a day kept the doctor away. All of my cousins get enemas but not as many as my sister and I do. And we all have gotten enemas from our grandmother. My grandmother called and said she would stop by after she went to church. She would let herself in. I know she is going to tell me that she needs to give me an enema.
[> [> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


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To Jamie
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Date Posted: 15:23:00 10/19/09 Mon
Did your Grandmother give you an enema? Why don't you describe how your grandmother did it....does your mother give you your enemas the same way her mother gave her enemas?
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
Sara
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Date Posted: 21:23:33 10/26/09 Mon
This is sick. I dont know of any parent who would give their teenager enemas once a week against his will. If such a parent exists, they are guilty of rape as far as I am concerned. I know in the older generation, enemas were given more frequently than today but even then once a week would have been considereed way overboard and usually the enemas stopped once the kid was about ten or so. There is nothing at all normal about this fetish. Get help.
[> Subject: Enema given by sibling or cousin


Author:
George
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Date Posted: 01:46:23 10/27/09 Tue
Has anybody ever had an enema given to them from either sister, brother or cousins? Curious
[> [> Subject: Cousin Enema


Author:
phil
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Date Posted: 03:17:14 10/27/09 Tue
ME, ME ! !
[> Subject: Re: Mom keeps trying


Author:
William
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Date Posted: 09:23:52 10/28/09 Wed
YES-- Do to my mother's weakened condition caused by her terminal illness, it became by responsibility to administer enemas to her and my sisters when I was 12. Mom died when I was 16 and when sis #1 turned 12 she started giving sis #2 her enemas and to me if and when I wanted or needed one. I still gave her enemas until she was 18 and left for college. Sis #2 also started giving her sis and me enemas when she was 12.

To this day at the age of 60 and 54 we will still help each other with enemas if one of us asks. Also the sisters help each other on a very few occasions as sis #1 has a hubby to help her as well as older girls.
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