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[> [> [> [> Subject: Your reactions and exploring them
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Author:
Fred4
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Date Posted: 10:50:13 10/01/09 Thu
My comments here are about to be somewhat unfair. I will cover what an adult who takes multiple enemas in reaction to uncomfortable, frequent or unneeded childhood enemas gets out of that. It is unfair, because while I had these reactions in my early 20s, my dominant reaction was toward "perfect kids" who seemed to handle childhood enemas which I found I couldn't. I don't address that here, because that is a longer (and maybe more personal) topic.
So, what does one "get out of" taking enemas as an adult (young adult is fine) when you had the adverse conditions as a kid:
1. You now control the process entirely (or if you pass the process of having someone else give you enemas, you control, or think you control, that choice). Controlling the process yourself is entirely different than having someone else control that process on you.
2. Let's consider if in controlling the process, you want to make the process as comfortable as possible. You control the temperature, the volume, the height from which the enema bag is hung, clearing any air in the tube, what if anything you add to the water, stops when you get cramps and how you handle the cramps. You can control if you want to start with small volume and take successive enemas to make it more comfortable. As far as entry, you control the nozzle, or if you prefer colon tube, and what and how much lubricant if any you use.
3. If you couldn't handle large volumes as a kid and want to prove to yourself you can, you can start smaller and take successive enemas so each one becomes easier to take. Also, as an adult, your body can hold more. If volume objective was a reaction of your psychological mind set, you are far better able to achieve it.
4. If being "totally clean" inside is your objective, you can more easily achieve it (even though temporary, as future food is processed) through the above mentioned processes.
5. Enemas do create sexual reactions. As a teen or an adult, they are far more direct and apparent than as a kid when they may be somewhat present though more latent. You can stimulate those reactions as far as you want, and do what one may want subsequently if a totally clean rear end was the objective.
So, fine, giving yourself (or having someone else give you) enemas can meet any or all of the above objectives that weren't under your control or achieveable as a kid. It's virtually impossible in some cases to say don't take the adult enemas, and one might argue why not go ahead and do it. That could be the right answer to what one feels.
I would only maintain that I think that many people might find that while proceeding along that path, just ask yourself whether all of it is great. I think often it may not be. In those cases, at those times when you are less intensively driven to give yourself enemas, I'd suggest exploring that as far as you want to take that. I think that may lead to a process to overcome what might be the compulsive reaction. I don't go into that further, not because it shouldn't be gone into further - it definitely should be - but it may likely different from one person and background to another person and background.
I hope some people find these thoughts interesting.
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