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Subject: Re: Your reactions and exploring them Author: Matt [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:22:53 10/01/09 Thu In reply to: Richard 's message, "Re: Your reactions and exploring them" on 11:22:54 10/01/09 Thu Growing up I was given enemas in front of others. At the time there was no sexual conotations at that time since I was only 6 to about 9 or 10 years old when this happened. Many of the those watching were girls just a little older than, moms friend daughters, girl cousins and so forth. The sexual nature of these ordeals did not hit me until after puberty and brought the memories of the events happening. I would say I was 14 years old or so when re-living the enemas with the girls watching became sort of sexual for me. Was I driven to relive that again? No, there was no sexual urge to have that ever happen again to me. I presume for some and myself, the embarrassment of being exposed for the procedure had become sexual, but not in a way that I would want it to continue. In fact I was glad they were over when I reached about 10 or so, but thinking about the girls watching the whole process of getting an enema at 14 became sexual to me. I hope I didn't confuse anyone. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Another thought, Richard Author: Fred4 [Edit] Date Posted: 07:42:24 10/02/09 Fri Richard, I had another thought which most likely has occurred to you. If one of the people who you have given enemas to sought them to contrast that with a painful childhood experience, and wanted gentleness and consideration in its administration by you, could you ask the same of them? They might well understand, and it might help the healing process for both of you. One thought, though, is that regardless of your attraction to that person, if it could be done for the restorative purposes for both of you, it might almost be better if it could be for that alone, and that any sexual relationship with that person, if it were to occur, would come later. Just a thought.