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Subject: Another thought, Richard Author: Fred4 [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:42:24 10/02/09 Fri In reply to: Matt 's message, "Re: Your reactions and exploring them" on 12:22:53 10/01/09 Thu Richard, I had another thought which most likely has occurred to you. If one of the people who you have given enemas to sought them to contrast that with a painful childhood experience, and wanted gentleness and consideration in its administration by you, could you ask the same of them? They might well understand, and it might help the healing process for both of you. One thought, though, is that regardless of your attraction to that person, if it could be done for the restorative purposes for both of you, it might almost be better if it could be for that alone, and that any sexual relationship with that person, if it were to occur, would come later. Just a thought. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Response to Matt Author: Fred4 [Edit] Date Posted: 08:37:06 10/02/09 Fri Matt, Maybe I am misinterpreting your comments but I may be inferring them correctly. Could the sexual response you felt be as follows: Okay, you were exposed naked to girls before 10, and were given enemas at that time. Your later reaction from age 14 on was that you wouldn't mind at all being exposed naked to an attractive girl around your age, and that you would particularly like it if she liked what she saw, and especially if she liked it in a sexual way. However, you would not want at all her attraction to you to be a main desire on her part to give you an enema. You wanted her attraction to you to be in its own right, just straight sexual attraction. If so, I can't see anything more normal than that.