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Date Posted: 22:47:54 11/13/04 Sat
Author: Joe
Subject: Re: your son
In reply to: Priscilla 's message, "My son is a UBFr" on 18:16:54 11/13/04 Sat

Hi. Feel free to email me (drchungj@gmail.com) your response.

Besides not listening to you, do you notice other negative changes in your son that might be due to involvement in UBF?

Like the majority of people who are recruited, your son will most likely leave UBF sometime in the future, when the lovebombing turns into suffocating control. In the meantime, assuming he is still living with you, you can continue to gently provide him with information about UBF, information that UBF will try to deny him.

An indispensable piece of information that you might give your son is the recent post on "Systematic Obedience Training". It may help him see through the subtle pressures that are probably being applied to him.

>My son is 18 and has been going to UBF now foro two
>years. I didn't know anything about UBF. I went a
>number of times and stopped. I am Catholic and would
>go to both churches. I am not just stopping being a
>Catholic. My son insisted that he did not want to go
>to the Catholic Church and tht when he turned 18 he
>would go to his choice church - i.e. UBF. I am
>concerned about all this now after reading this. and
>also that he is notdating because he wants to hold out
>for a marriage of faith. I tried to talk to him about
>this. I don't know what to do. Also, he is so dead
>set on this. He won't listen to me. I printed up
>some of this stuff and will ask him to read it. He
>has made a lot of friends over at the UBF church.

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Friends in UBF -- Mike K., 00:45:48 11/15/04 Mon