Date Posted:09:31:21 09/28/04 Tue Author:Joe Subject: Re: Cincinnati UBF In reply to:
former
's message, "Re: Cincinnati UBF" on 08:33:48 09/28/04 Tue
>>I was in Cincinnati UBF in the late 90's. I have
>never experienced anything like Donna's story.
Hi. Some questions:
How long were you in it and why did you leave?
You never experienced certain pressures to get UBF-arranged-married or saw others undergoing the arranged marriages, a common practice in all UBF chapters?
Did you notice a performance preoccupation, common to most UBF chapters, alluded to by a recent former member of Cinci?
Did you notice an exclusiveness, also common to most UBF chapters, also alluded to by the recent former member?
Did you notice that seemingly committed members of the chapter would leave without a word and not be mentioned again, also a common phenomenon in most UBF chapters?