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Subject: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Curious
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Date Posted: 06:54:18 11/05/09 Thu

It seems to me from reading comments here that women are more likely to use enemas as a health thing but it is the guy who brought it in as a sexual thing. Don't guys make everything sexual?
I want to know, if you use enemas as part of sex play, whose idea was it? Yours or his?

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Liz Randle (As sex play?)
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Date Posted: 08:54:24 11/05/09 Thu

I just want to write about enemas as used by couples. In our case, we give enemas when one's needed or just wanted for a good clean-out. My hubby and I are both erotic about the enema and get a great deal of pleasure from it. In addition to the sexual turn-on there's terrific intimacy. I can think of nothing more intimate than the administration of an enema. The act brings us closer and, of course, leaves each of us feeling thoroughly cleansed. I'd be happy to write more about this subject if anyone here would have a comment for me.

Cheers!

Liz

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[> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
JenniferConners
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Date Posted: 10:01:31 11/17/09 Tue

Hi Liz,

I'm interested in hearing more about your giving your husband enemas. What kind do you usually use and what types of equipment do you have? I give my boyfriend lots of enemas using many different kinds of soaps from a health food store near me. I love giving him a 3 quart long hot soapy enema as he lies over my lap on the couch. An enema is not only the most intimate thing you can do to someone but it can also be the most humiliating thing you can do as well. I love the feeling of power as I order him over my lap taunting him and laughing throughout the enema session. He loves it when I take control of things and so do I lol.

Warm wishes,
Jen.

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Dolores
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Date Posted: 10:48:09 11/05/09 Thu

In our e-play, it could be either of us. Sometimes I initiate it for any number of reasons, including health, but eventually evolving into somethimg more sexual.
With my hubby, more often then not, it's a sexual thing.
Either way, we both enjoy long, smooth, enema sessions which can last up to a couple hours, culminating with a shower and session in the bedroom.
But in either case, it's us!

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?
Author: Carol Lynn [Edit]	Date Posted: 15:26:55 11/05/09 Thu I will answer this question by making a riddle out of it ... Question: How can you tell that an adult is lying to you? Answer: When they tell you they use enemas only for health reasons! :-) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?
Author: harry adams [Edit]	Date Posted: 18:35:08 11/05/09 Thu i think carol said it exactly right. any time something is put into your anal canal and you don't see some sexual implications to it. i wonder if you are not telling the truth. i have had many hours of communications with carol, and she is one of the sharpest women on the subject you will ever connect with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?
Author: Harry Adams Check [Edit]	Date Posted: 20:15:08 11/05/09 Thu Remember Harry, you are a dirty old man. Be careful on this forum or these woman will crucify you. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

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Carol Lynn
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Date Posted: 17:43:50 11/06/09 Fri

I wasnt around here when this board was created but I assume that it was limited to Women because of the things so many guys say about giving enemas to women.
I have talked to Harry so many times over the past years and feel comfortable recommending that he be made an "honorary woman" for this mesasge board! In my book, he has definitely earned it!
Carol Lynn

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
HS
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Date Posted: 20:37:44 11/05/09 Thu

It was him. One time years ago my boyfriend and I were talking about kinky things we had heard and would like to try. He thought a minute and said he wanted to give me an enema. Enemas were not something my family did. The only thing I knew about enemas was they made you shit. I told him no way.
Then one day I was at the drugstore and a sign caught my eye. They had the store brand enemas on sale for something like $1.50 for a twin pack. I thought it was worth that just to try it. When I got home I gave myself one of them according to the instructions on the box. I was surprised at how quick it made me shit but I didn't see much fun in that. I put the remaining bottle in the nightstand.
Some days later we were resting between and somehow I remembered the enema so I thought what the heck. I pulled the enema bottle from the nightstand drawer where I put it earlier and told him to go ahead and do it to me. He took one look at the bottle and asked what did I mean by that. I reminded him he said he wanted to give me an enema, so this was his opportunity. He said I had a lot to learn about enemas but he would start teaching me tomorrow.
All the next day the anticipation was killing me. What could he possibly do different than what I did myself? So that night we were at his apartment and as were preparing to jump in bed he asked if I was ready for my enema. I said OK and he went in the bathroom. I heard water running and things and I couldn't figure out what in the world he was doing. I mean all you have to do is open the box and take off the cap. Right? Then he comes to the bedroom with this full douche bag. I asked him why I had to douche before I got an enema. He said it was a combination syringe for douche or enema and this is my enema.
But I had never thought of anybody getting an enema with anything other than the disposable bottle. Now I am really puzzled and getting scared and he sticks the thing in my butt and I feel the water going in. It was an interesting feeling but within a few minutes I felt like I had to go. Really, really bad. I told him I had to go and he let me up.
When I got back to the bed he told me I had to finish it. Finish what? Finish the bag! As full as I felt and as much as I shit out I could hardly believe the bag was still over half full! He had to sweet talk me but I gave in and I managed to empty the bag before heading to the bathroom the second time. It seems like I shit for an hour. I couldn't believe how much more water and shit was in me.
At first I didn't think the whole ordeal was that much fun but it was obviously exciting for him. He talked me into giving him enemas and I gradually learned how to give as well as take. Over time I learned to relax and actually began to like it but about that time he seemed to lose interest. I think part of his excitement in the beginning was the challenge of the forbidden fruit. Once I gave in the thrill was gone for him.

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Kim
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Date Posted: 20:10:34 11/06/09 Fri

I was no stranger to the enema but I considered douching and enemas to be very personal activities. I would never have considered either of them as a couples thing. I did not hide my enemas from my husband. My syringe was under the sink and sometimes there would be unmistakable sounds and smells. But I never asked him to participate.
One rainy winter day I was just getting started and he came into the bedroom and offered to help. I told him I didn't need help but he didn't leave. I reluctantly let him watch and then he wanted to give me another one. As clumsy and inexperienced as he was it was exciting just the same and it led to other things which is what he had in mind anyway. Men will do just about anything to see you naked and stick something in your ass.

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Diana (to Kim)
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Date Posted: 15:45:35 11/07/09 Sat

You are so right about men's intentions ... but isn't it exciting too. The anticipation of them playing with out backsides always makes me wet. And then when the real play starts, I just can't seem to wait for more. I don't know about you, but when my hubby and I get going, doing enemas, we just can't stop after just one or two. One afternoon we did four each. I felt so good, but so exhausted, but a refreshing shower got my energy back up for another session in the bedroom. Our showers are unique too ... we have a temperature control device and during the course of our shower, we turn it down a couple degrees every minute or so, just to see how long it will take before either of use says "cold enough." Would you believe one time we got down to 60-degree water ... that's about 40 degrees below a comfortable shower temperature. I was shivering, but my hubby was so charged up. I was one of the better post-e sessions we ever had. Sometime, if you're feeling adventurous, try it. Don't know if you'll like it, but it is different.

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Confused
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Date Posted: 20:33:51 11/08/09 Sun

I have a long term friend who likes to play with enemas. At first he just hinted at it but eventually it led to some direct discussion. It took him a long time to convince me to give him an enema. At first I would not let him give me one but I could see how much he enjoyed getting his and he begged me over and over to let him give me one. I finally gave in and after a few episodes of giving to each other I still don't like it. I hate having to jump out of bed to run to the toilet and I just can't get past the mess at the end. Once I let him give me only a little bit and I held it all night to avoid getting out of bed. It was quite uncomfortable at first but eventually I guess it just absorbed, but I had to get up twice later to pee.
While I hate to get out of bed, the worst part is the mess at the end. So I ask you girls what is the secret to getting past that? Am I just too prissy to accept that what comes out is just part of it?

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[> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Tara
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Date Posted: 21:08:32 11/16/09 Mon

I divorced years ago and I have had a few relationships but nothing permanent has developed. I may have killed one of them by being too direct about my enema fetish. I thought we were doing well but one evening after lots of liquor we were feeling good and the talk drifted to kinky sex. He asked me what I wanted to do. Before I could think the liquor in me told him I wanted him to give me an enema. The look on his face told me without a doubt that that it was No, Hell, No. He laughed it off but things were never the same after that.
Now I have somebody else and we seem to be doing OK but I don't want to repeat the past mistakes. The direct approach didn't work the last time. How can I find out if a guy might be receptive to enema play without ruining the relationship?

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?
Author: Switchablesusie [Edit]	Date Posted: 08:24:45 11/17/09 Tue Try some simple anal play first. Just lube your finger, rub his anus, later inert a finger or two or more and see how he responds. Start slowly, then build up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Queer Check
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Date Posted: 12:13:42 11/17/09 Tue

All of you know by now that the public considers our fetish to really be strange and borders on being a real queer fetish. The only way to find someone who shares your interest (fetish) is to advertise on Craigslist and make it real clear that you want to fool around with the enema scene. If you blurt out, cold turkey, that you want to give your mate (date) an enema, you will be sent to the funny farm. We are just to strange a breed to be taken seriously.

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?
Author: Been There [Edit]	Date Posted: 19:20:02 11/19/09 Thu Tara, You need to be careful. There is some sort of double standard going on with some men. Most have no problem putting things in your ass, but don't you dare try it in theirs. They have this idea that if a man enjoys things in his ass, he is queer. I know. I had one like that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Kristi
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Date Posted: 20:47:49 11/09/09 Mon

Neither one!
I have been married many years and have several children so my husband and I have certainly seen each other's privates up close and personal, but we poop and pee in private. I have had my share of enemas including some for no other reason than self-gratification but I consider the enema a very personal thing and would not consider asking him to do it to me.

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[> Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?

Author:
Sally Sue
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Date Posted: 19:22:16 11/19/09 Thu

Was it me or my hubby ? Who was the first to mention it. It was me !
We are now offically seniors so this was like in "olden" times. We met in college, he was in business school and I was in nursing school (RN). Hubby had polio as a child which left him with some serious abdominal muscle problems.
At one point in our relationship, a couple of months after we met and we beginning to realize that we were in love, we decided to do a shackup weekend at a local motel.

After an evening of sex hubby headed to the shower. I heard these noises coming from from the bathroom and called in to ask him if he was alright. He assured me he was, just some normal problems. He was straining trying to have a BM and it was obvious.

I had brought my douche bag with me for after sex cleanout.

When he came out I asked it everything was alright and he said things would be better tomorrow, not to worry. I told him I would be right back I was going to shower. I did and afterwards immediately filled the douche bag, carried it into the room and he just looked at me...strangely.

"Young man it is enema time for you. The way you were straining in there you need help."

No way ! Was the answer.

I played my trump card,and told him if he wanted sex again he was going to take the enema. I gave him only a quart and told him to come back and we would finish up.

He came back out and from the odor that followed him it obviously worked. I laid him down and went and refilled the bag with 2 quarts of really warm water. I put him on his left side and began to lube him up. That is when the groaning started and he tried to reach for his cock without me seeing it.

I rolled him onto his back and watched his hand fly away. I inserted my finger back into him and right onto his prostate. He started moaning , I shoved the douch tip in, turned on the water and began masturbating him.

He just lokked at me and then started bucking against the tip. He took the whole bag and came just as it drained dry.

From that point on he was hooked on the enema and still is...of course we both are.

So you see it was me and I am really glad I did. No sense in waiting!

Sally Sue

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