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Subject: Re: Was it him, or you?


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Diana (to Kim)
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Date Posted: 15:45:35 11/07/09 Sat
In reply to: Curious 's message, "Was it him, or you?" on 06:54:18 11/05/09 Thu

You are so right about men's intentions ... but isn't it exciting too. The anticipation of them playing with out backsides always makes me wet. And then when the real play starts, I just can't seem to wait for more. I don't know about you, but when my hubby and I get going, doing enemas, we just can't stop after just one or two. One afternoon we did four each. I felt so good, but so exhausted, but a refreshing shower got my energy back up for another session in the bedroom. Our showers are unique too ... we have a temperature control device and during the course of our shower, we turn it down a couple degrees every minute or so, just to see how long it will take before either of use says "cold enough." Would you believe one time we got down to 60-degree water ... that's about 40 degrees below a comfortable shower temperature. I was shivering, but my hubby was so charged up. I was one of the better post-e sessions we ever had. Sometime, if you're feeling adventurous, try it. Don't know if you'll like it, but it is different.

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Confused
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Date Posted: 20:33:51 11/08/09 Sun

I have a long term friend who likes to play with enemas. At first he just hinted at it but eventually it led to some direct discussion. It took him a long time to convince me to give him an enema. At first I would not let him give me one but I could see how much he enjoyed getting his and he begged me over and over to let him give me one. I finally gave in and after a few episodes of giving to each other I still don't like it. I hate having to jump out of bed to run to the toilet and I just can't get past the mess at the end. Once I let him give me only a little bit and I held it all night to avoid getting out of bed. It was quite uncomfortable at first but eventually I guess it just absorbed, but I had to get up twice later to pee.
While I hate to get out of bed, the worst part is the mess at the end. So I ask you girls what is the secret to getting past that? Am I just too prissy to accept that what comes out is just part of it?

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Tara
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Date Posted: 21:08:32 11/16/09 Mon

I divorced years ago and I have had a few relationships but nothing permanent has developed. I may have killed one of them by being too direct about my enema fetish. I thought we were doing well but one evening after lots of liquor we were feeling good and the talk drifted to kinky sex. He asked me what I wanted to do. Before I could think the liquor in me told him I wanted him to give me an enema. The look on his face told me without a doubt that that it was No, Hell, No. He laughed it off but things were never the same after that.
Now I have somebody else and we seem to be doing OK but I don't want to repeat the past mistakes. The direct approach didn't work the last time. How can I find out if a guy might be receptive to enema play without ruining the relationship?

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Switchablesusie
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Date Posted: 08:24:45 11/17/09 Tue

Try some simple anal play first. Just lube your finger, rub his anus, later inert a finger or two or more and see how he responds. Start slowly, then build up.

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Queer Check
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Date Posted: 12:13:42 11/17/09 Tue

All of you know by now that the public considers our fetish to really be strange and borders on being a real queer fetish. The only way to find someone who shares your interest (fetish) is to advertise on Craigslist and make it real clear that you want to fool around with the enema scene. If you blurt out, cold turkey, that you want to give your mate (date) an enema, you will be sent to the funny farm. We are just to strange a breed to be taken seriously.

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Been There
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Date Posted: 19:20:02 11/19/09 Thu

Tara,
You need to be careful. There is some sort of double standard going on with some men. Most have no problem putting things in your ass, but don't you dare try it in theirs. They have this idea that if a man enjoys things in his ass, he is queer.
I know. I had one like that.

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