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Date Posted: 13:09:20 10/07/05 Fri
Author: FRANK
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Re: Jealousy. Boyfriend.
In reply to: Kelly 's message, "Jealousy. Boyfriend." on 14:08:28 08/30/04 Mon

>I'm 12 years old and i have a b/f i know i'm young but
>i really do love him and i know he loves me. But
>there's this girl her name is Anne and she's one of my
>best friends, and she's pretty, thin, nice. A guy
>would love a girl like her, an i started thinking that
>my b/f likes her. He's swears that he doesn't and that
>he would do anything for me to believe him, but i've
>looked over at him and i've seen him looking at her
>butt. And he said that he wasn't he might not have
>been but there still is a good chance he was. So after
>a while i started getting second thoughts that maybe
>he really doesn't like her, but no matter how hard i
>try i just can't believe him and i don't know why i
>just can't believe him it's like there's something
>stopping me from beliving him but what?That's what i
>need advice for What can i do to make my trust level
>better? And Why can't I just believe him? And remember
>i'm 12.

On the darker side: the best advice i can give to a young girl at your age is to just supress thouse feelings of doubt, confusion, and misery inside of you and put on that happy face on because eventullay those feelings will eventully turn into hate or rage witch you can save for later use at someone else when a different problem comes up. And that, my darling, is what we call being passive aggresive, which can come in handy.

On the lighter side: the best advice i can give you for this kind of drama is to just hold out as long as possible and eventullay this whole sittuation will blow over and resolve itself, but how it gets solved is unpredictable, but think about it this way, you wont be worring about this when your twenty years old ( basiclly, just look towards the future)

by the way, my friend NymphO wants to say a few words: if you have any doubts just tell him or not...in the long run feel good that you didnt fuck him yet.

later- from your good atheist friends, FRANK and NymphO

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