| Subject: Re: Customary For The Entire Family To Watch? |
Author:
jean the fenchie
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Date Posted: 05:48:54 09/18/09 Fri
In reply to:
Robert1012
's message, "Re: Customary For The Entire Family To Watch?" on 15:43:51 09/07/09 Mon
you are right "Rich", it was not necessary bad in the past to be less concerned than today by the modesty of children and particularly that of boys.
it was when a boy beguins his puberty and became a teenager that the double standard was sometimes applied in an unfair manner, even if I am convinced that a complete equality of boys and girls tenagers for the respect of modesty or privacy was not always necessary and I don't agree with these men who are always complaining in these forums about the inequality of treatmen when they were young or sometimes adults in the health field.Generally, it was not so traumatizing!
Most of the time, some differences could be noticed in school showers, undressing in changing rooms, school physicals, and even at home for bathing, undressing, or for a physical examination by a doctor and so on, and some could be considered as rather normal.
It is not the same for a boy tenager to be seen by an adult women and for a girl tenager to be seen by an adul man, it was a question of education and of customs and also because it was (and certainly it is still mostly the case) the mothers who cared about children and teenagers, boys or girls.
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