| Subject: Re: You tenny-boppers need counseling. |
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Samar
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Date Posted: 13:32:22 02/17/02 Sun
In reply to:
LPS
's message, "Re: You tenny-boppers need counseling." on 11:41:23 02/17/02 Sun
Those whom were flaming me knew English well enough to criticize mine, pointing out that individual's bad spelling and grammar was simply pointing out what a little hypocrite she was. Good, an adult on the board. It's perfectly normal to fantasize about celebrities, it's human and one cannot live without fantasy, I'm just disturbed by some of the things said earlier in this thread. The individuals who want Ryan to be their father are the whom write post after post about how badly they want to have sex with him. Does that not disturb you? It doesn't say a lot about their relationships with their parents, but it also doesn't say much about their perceptions on love either. To love Ryan in that adolescent "he's so hot, I wanna sleep with him" kind of way is fine, to love Ryan in the "I wish he was my daddy" kind of way is fine. To wish Ryan was your father and also wanting to sleep with him is sick. It suggests that the girl cannot interpret her feelings (love, in this case) correctly, because she wants to place him as a father figure in her life, but she doesn't realize that her love is that daughter-to-a-father love. It's not incest, but it's the thinking that leads to it. As I said, it's common in girls that don't get on well with their fathers. If you'd like to contradict me I'd like to see YOUR degree in psychology. And tell me, when you and your friends were fantasizing about these actors, rock stars, etc. did you also wish that they could be your fathers? Didn't think so. Be an adult and admit that the kids around you have a little bit of mis-wired circuitry in their cerebrums.
Ps. I assume you don't know exactly what "potential stalker" looks like. Stalkerish behavior is characterized by skewed perceptions of yourself in relation to the person. I can name quite a few kids whom are "potential stalkers" on this messageboard, and even more whom just need to a long, honest look at themselves.
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