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Date Posted: 06:31:23 11/29/04 Mon
Author: Anonymous
Subject: Coming out about Viagra

I have been in a relationship with a woman for 6 months now. The woman I am seeing is very sensitive to having any secrets in a relationship. I had been taking Viagra since before I met her. We have a sexual relationship and we are both in love with one another. I had not told her that I was taking Viagra. This past weekend we were talking very seriously about possibly moving in together or maybe even marriage. We had just come to the end of a very wonderful weekend. After finishing multiple projects on her house that day, she was going through my pockets of the pants that needed to go into the wash and I interrupted her and said I need to get something out of my pocket. It was the Viagra. When I reached into my back pocket, I pulled out the viagra with a blue comb I had in there also with the pills behind it. She had an upset look on her face and asked what was that? And I said it was a comb and that I was just kidding. I didn't know she had seen the pills. So we had dinner that night with her parents and it seemed all was forgotten. Then when we went to bed that night, she asked me again what was in my pocket and I again said my comb. So she pressed the matter and it occurred to me that she may have seen the pills. So I told her then that I was occasionally taking Viagra. She felt that this was a trust issue and that I should not have withheld that information from her. I told her I didn't tell her because it was embarrassing to me that she know that I may not be able to perform sexually and I needed a pill. She didn't think that was an acceptable excuse and was very upset that I didn't tell her about this and more that I lied about what was in my pocket. She said there should be no secrets.

Well, it was about 1 a.m. at that point and after apologizing and asking her for forgiveness, and her saying that an apology does not make it okay to lie, I left to go home. That was last night. We haven't talked yet today. What I'd like to know from everyone is was I wrong for not telling her? Am I justified to try to keep this my secret? Should she be more understanding of my situation and not get so hung up that I lied and try to understand why I was trying to keep it secret?

Thanks.
Mark

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