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| Subject: could i be pregnant |
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so scared (nervous)
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Date Posted: 01:39:36 08/23/08 Sat
me and my guy friend were messing around i gave him a hand job and there were pre cum then we were trying to find my hole and i forgot that i still had precum on my hand while i was trying to find my hole and my period hasnt come on yet and im wondering could i be pregant but we didnt do the whole thing and im still a virgin please answer my question
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| Subject: Confused |
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Date Posted: 15:16:46 08/15/08 Fri
Hello. Me and my boyfriend had sex about 6-9 days after my period ended. It was one of those days and we always use a condom. But a week after we had sex my boobs began to become sore and a week later they still are. I feel a little nausious at time but nothing big.I think its just because of my situation. I am 17 and my bf is 19. My period is due in a week. Could i be pregnant or is it a bad case of pms or are my boobs just growing. I am very small chested. Thanks
Carlie
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| Subject: confused |
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paty
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Date Posted: 18:58:35 08/04/08 Mon
i just got on the patch ortho evra and i was wondering that after my 4th week off can i get pregnant
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Subject:  am i pregnat?! |
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brianna (scared)
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Date Posted: 15:11:02 07/23/08 Wed
hi,im only 12 and i had sex yesterday.
he was my first and he didnt have a condom.
im really scared because i think he cume inside me.
what do i do?!?!?!?!!
how can i tel my mom i had sex and didnt use a condom.
shes going to be so upset with me!
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Subject:  spotting a week befoe AF |
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angie (curious)
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Date Posted: 17:35:28 07/14/08 Mon
hi well me and bf had sex on all my fertile days june 26-30 last AF was june 16 so question is it possible to start having symptoms 6-9 dpo?? only things thats really diff. is my breasts were extremely sensitive n sore... nipples too. never experience this before period so any infos great. a few days after soreness eased up 9dpo i spotted once then nothing til the next afternoon i had light flow no cramps or clot by 3am it stopped. next day only spot when i wiped. i was due for per the 13 of july no sign of it at all. is this normal? im always reg w/ 28-30 day cycle for 6 yrs now no stress or lifestyle changes....any insight????
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Subject:  Trying to get pregnant |
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Date Posted: 00:35:44 07/09/08 Wed
Me and my fiancee is trying to have a baby and the family is waiting for us to have a baby. We have been having sex for the past month without protection and he doesnt pull out and sometimes he stays in me afterwards, lately ive been nausea with cramps and have to pee alot like three times a night, my nipples hurt. I cant find a free clinic in galveston tx. could i be pregnant and if not what can i do to get pregnant and how can we have a girl?
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Subject:  A little Confused |
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Jenna (Good)
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Date Posted: 00:41:39 06/28/08 Sat
Okay my husband and I had sex last night and he went all the way. Im suppost to start my period like tomorrow could I be pregnaunt?
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Subject:  Definitely unplanned |
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Leslie
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Date Posted: 12:14:52 06/14/08 Sat
Hi. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for 2 years. And I mean really off with him seeing other women and I've seen other men. We just recently decided to try to make it work. The reason for us breaking up is that his parents do not approve of our relationship and he doesn't know how to cut them out of his life but with his recent decision he states that this time it's going to be different. I am 29 and was married very early. I had 2 abortions then and later on widowed. I don't regret my choice. I just got liposculputure last oct. 2007 and I work in dance so I need my body. Regardless of if he stays or not should I even consider having this child?
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| Subject: How do I know if my gf is preg? |
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Ernest (wondering)
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Date Posted: 23:23:21 05/25/08 Sun
hello, my gf is 13 days late in her period and she wa ssupposed get her period on may 11th but now it is may 24th, and she took the preg test and it came out blank which seems strange, wha should she do/ does this mean she is preg?
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Subject:  Am I pregnant? |
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Marisol (Anxious)
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Date Posted: 00:30:59 04/19/08 Sat
Im 19, Married, and my hubby wants a baby. I love kids and would have one too. Ive heard, and so it says on the box, that a pregnancy test is not 100% accurate but i wanted to know exaclt what the symptoms were? ive read one of your answers, about the sore breast and nipples and light bleeding or something after 6-12days of conception.......did i write that correctly? My boobs are sore, especially the nipples, my hubby says they're growing and ive kinda noticed, i pee somewhat mnore thatn i usually do and cant really hold it like i used to, im late on my period but when i took the test it said negative. what other things would i be able to tell if i am or not. and is the test always right?
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| Subject: Can I be pregnant? please help... |
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Date Posted: 13:57:12 04/18/08 Fri
Well im 7 weeks late on my period and I have some pregnancy symptoms like tender nipples,bumps around my areola(montgomery bumps) fatigue, nausea but dnt throw up, headaches and frequent urination. But I've took lots of home pregnancy tst and there negative I dnt knw wat to do im real confused. If some1 can please give me some suggestions...thanks.
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Subject:  Need Advise! |
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Date Posted: 16:45:48 04/14/08 Mon
Hello,
My name is Veronica. Im a 25 year old woman with a child of 8 yrs old.
Im in a relationship of 5 months now,(FYI..this isn't my daugters father). this relationship is very different from other relationships. met my now boyfriend about a year ago or so knew he already had a girlfriend... was ok with that,, at the time i was with someone else. to make this story short... his girlfriend asked me to move into there home. she knew he had the hots for me, she aldo knew that he wanted something else besides just a friendship and she was okay with that (( funny but true)).. weeks passed, became closer to one another and finaly we began a relationship.. so now He had his 2 ladies living in the same house.. to all this my daughter knows NOTHING about this.. on her eyes and my family's eyes we're all just "roommates" ANYWAY....
We've been "of course" having unprotected sex therefor im 5 weeks pregnant now.
The resaon for this message is to get advise and some confort.
My partner isn't okay with me having this child therefor he is strongly considering an abortion. i strongly on my part, DO NOT BELIEVE in abortions. so were basicly like oil n water ((( not mixing))) & that's really affecting me alot..
we've discuss this matter numerous times up until WHEN he just got on my nevers n said OKAY IM HAVING AN ABORTION DONE. days later, weeks later i said to my self.... what did i just agreed on????
i now have second thoughts about having one done.. the only things keeping me from having this baby is the fact that #1. he will no longer be with me if i decide to keep this baby, #2. i will have to explain to my daughter that im pergnant by someone that she knows is with someone else and also have a baby by him..
#3 explain this WHOLE situation to my family.
im soooo confused, don't know what to do..
i see him playing with his almost year old daughter n it really hurts to see that he loves her but yet i can't have one...
what to do!!!?
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| Subject: Could I be pregnant??? |
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Nina (Confused??)
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Date Posted: 17:37:46 04/12/08 Sat
Hi i am 22yrs old and my bf and i had sex with a condom 5wks ago but when we stopeed having sex the condom was on his leg so i dont know if it came off during or after we were done having sex anyways, I have been peeing every 10 15 mins or so and feeling lightheaded and my stomach is tightening a lil bit i took a test last week but it was negetaive i have been having cramps like im about to start but nothing happens. could i be pregnant??? Ihave also been more tired latley for no reason
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| Subject: Is it possible that I can be pregnant? |
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Date Posted: 13:56:14 04/10/08 Thu
OK here's the deal. this is going to sound so stupid, but I need reassurance. My period last month came on march 6th and ended on march 12th, and then a few days after that my boyfriend and I messed around..but I just gave him a handjob/oral and he fingered me and gave me oral. me first, and then i did it to him. we had clothes on but just our pants were down, and never at the same time. but while i was giving him a hand job he was fingering me and i thought that maybe there was some possible way that i'm not sure of he could've got precum on his hands and then fingered me? I don't know if he did for sure or not..i remember him "adjusting" himself and then helping me get his pants down. sorry this is so graphic. but i'm wondering what the chances are?? AND i also got my period on april 4th..with signs leading up to it and major cramping the first day, but my flow was exceptionally lighter than it normally is. now its the 10th and im just spotting. So could stress of me thinking I could be pregnant some how mess up how my flow is?? and am I just being ridiculous? I guess i'm just over thinking things and i've been on websites that say its "unlikely" but possible..so i'm just thinking maybe i just got bad luck?? who knows..but I need another opinion please!!
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| Subject: Not sure what to think-or what my body is doing?! |
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Date Posted: 21:21:42 03/31/08 Mon
Hi...
I am a 26y/o mother of a 3 and 1/2 year old. His father and I recently split up- which is a good thing. However, we were still having intercourse up until things were broken off. And to make matters worse, I had my LMP January 15. I am nauseous to the extreme (it has been all day for the past 4 days, now) but had been sporadic now for about a week and a half. My breasts are slightly tender....I feel somewhat moody (ok, ok- I guess If you want to say absolutely hormonal that will work too- from crying to angry to sad to mad to numb to happy) and I have not seen ANY sign of my period. Nothing. Sometime in Feb, I did see some type of reddish discharge--not completely bloody, persay, but as if I had ovulated or something had implanted, almost, and it discharged a little out. But that is about it. My cycle has always been a little screwy, but not this screwy. The breakup wasn't stressing or emotional---I have been generally happy. I honestly wasnt worrying until these symptoms started appearing. I have a doctor's appt for friday- but the worst part is...I am getting a negative HPT. What is going on??? With my first son, i took 4 HPT and a urine test at the MD's office, and those were all negative, and then 5 minutes later after they did the blood test, that came out positive. So, what is your opinion on all of this? Do you think that if I was truly pg at this point that it would still not be showing on a HPT? I'm so confused, I really dont know what to think. Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated.
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| Subject: Top Ten Signs You may be Pregnant |
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Kris
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Date Posted: 08:51:06 03/28/08 Fri
• 10. Tender, swollen breasts
• 9. Fatigue
• 8. Implantation bleeding
• 7. Nausea or vomiting
• 6. Increased sensitivity to odors
• 5. Abdominal bloating
• 4. Frequent urination
• 3. A missed period
• 2. Your basal body temperature stays high
• 1. The proof: A positive pregnancy test
If you think you may be pregnant, you can get a FREE and CONFIDENTIAL test at a pregnancy center - Look one up near you at:
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
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| Subject: Sex |
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Christine (sad)
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Date Posted: 22:40:40 03/25/08 Tue
My boyfriend nuts in me when i have my period...am i pregnant? I'm only 15
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| Subject: siegelinde |
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Date Posted: 11:44:48 03/25/08 Tue
I had my period a couple of days early, and when i started it was very light, when it has always been heavy for the first couple of days. I want to know if i could be pregnant?
thanks
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| Subject: PREGNANCY |
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Nicole (OK)
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Date Posted: 23:39:56 03/23/08 Sun
Hi I had my tubes tide it will be 5 years Dec/5/08 I was supposed to get my period back around the first of the month it never came I have been felling like birds and stuff moving around in there I have been having unprotected sex with my man that I have been with over a year we live together I feel like I could be preagnant i just dont no
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Subject:  pregnant or not |
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Taylor (confused)
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Date Posted: 10:20:06 03/19/08 Wed
I am 20yrs old. I had sex a day before my period, my boyfried did cum inside me. Its a month later and Im pregnant, is it possible that it could have gotten pregnant that day?
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| Subject: pREGNANT? |
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Date Posted: 11:26:11 03/18/08 Tue
i SUPPOSEDLY OVULATED BETWEEN THE 4TH AND 9TH OF MARCH. I HAD SEX WITH MY HUSBAND ON THE 10TH. SINCE THE 14TH I'VE BEEN CRAMPING LIKE I COULD START MY PERIOD. I'M NOT DUE TO START UNTIL THE 22ND. IS THERE A CHANCE I COULD BE PREGNANT?
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| Subject: Trying to get pregnant |
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Vicki (sad)
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Date Posted: 01:26:28 03/14/08 Fri
Me and my boyfriend of two years have been trying to have a baby but have no luck, my boyfriend smoke weed heavily and i dont smoke at all. we have sex almost everyday at least 3 times a day and everytime he cums inside of me but im still not getting pregnant. sometimes after we have sex i feel like i have to throw up, my stomach feels full and i've been having sharp pain in my lower stomach around my belly button. can i still get pregnant while my boyfriend smoke weed? if he stop which i doubt how long do i need to wait after he stops??? why do i feel like i have to throw up after he cums in me?? why do i get headaches the day after he cums in me?? is my body trying to get pregnant?? please someone help
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| Subject: Help |
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TaSherra (Sad)
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Date Posted: 17:05:11 03/13/08 Thu
I have a problem. I wanted to know if someone can get pregnant by pre nut being on the wrong side of the condom but then the boy take the condom off and put the condom on the right the way? and then start having intercourse for a few minutes.
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| Subject: Is it possible to discover pregnant within a month after period? |
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Iza
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Date Posted: 00:13:08 03/08/08 Sat
I had my period on 2nd Feb 2008. It ended on the 6th/7th Feb 2008. I got married on 8th Febuary 2008. Thats the 1st time I had sex(in life) and it goes on daily. I then went to the doctors for a check on 4th March 2008. And the doctor said my pregnancy test showed that I am pregnant. No doubt I am pregnant as said by the doctor but The question is, it is possible to be positive and detected by the test in such a short period of time? Please reply. Thanks
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| Subject: help me |
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jane (sad)
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Date Posted: 09:27:49 03/02/08 Sun
i had sex with my boyfriend on the second day of my period.. whats the percentage that i would get pregnant? he cummed inside me. i actually have regular periods.. when does my ovaluation period start anyway? but please help me.. will i most likely get pregnant???
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| Subject: hi |
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Date Posted: 16:07:00 02/27/08 Wed
any1 who can help i had my period on the 15 feb which was alot longer than normal then 9 days later i ad a light bleed 4 about 3 days and we was having sex wiv out useing anything do u think im preganat
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| Subject: Whats the chances |
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Emma (worried)
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Date Posted: 22:49:48 02/23/08 Sat
Hi, ive bin going out with this guy for a month now and we have sex nearly every other day. 2weeks after we started going out i came on. and then when i came off we started having sex again, we dont use protection and we have sex more than once everytime we see eachother. he really wants a baby and i thought i did but im not too sure now, im due on by the end of this month, or the start of the next.
Just yesturday ive bin craving sweet things. i hate chocolate! and i went through about 6 different bars of chocolate in the space of 2 mins. from the time i woke up i started eating and i didnt stop till i went to sleep, and i cant seem to get full its really werid!, plus my nipples are realy sore! hpefully its just pms but
is there a chance im pregnant?
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| Subject: What happens if the guy is doing drugs? |
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Chrisy (sad)
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Date Posted: 01:09:03 02/21/08 Thu
I recently got pregnat, and was using drugs. I know that you are not suppose to use drugs while you are pregnat so i stopped. But what if the guy who got you pregnat heavily used drugs. Will this effect the sperm that came from him?
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| Subject: Am I? |
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Date Posted: 14:09:16 02/20/08 Wed
I stopped seasonique after my placebo pills, this was back in the beginning of january. I did not start a new bc. I was due for my period on Feb. 12th and I STILL have not started. I took a pregnancy test 3 days ago and it was negative.... Any ideas as to what could be going on? I was only on seasonique for 6 months, and did not just stop taking them in the middle of the pack, so I wouldn't think that it would still have my cycle mixed up... Was it too early to take a pregnancy test? My longtime boyfriend & I did have unprotected sex many times during that month.. We aren't trying or not trying to get pregnant.. Whatever happens, happens.. But why am I so late with a negative test??
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| Subject: Concerns |
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Date Posted: 02:26:17 02/15/08 Fri
hi im 18 yrs . old and am about to graduate from high school. me and my ? had unprotected sex and i checkd my ovulation calendar and it said my most fertile days were the 9th-13th. i jus wanted to see if i was fertile when i had sex on the 9th cuz i usually use it for my periods .i know they are not 100% accurate but nearly 3 years ago i got prego from pre-cum and i had an abortion. i was doing so good til now. please dont judge ,i just need advice . the calendars said i was fertile and i had sex on my first fertile day which was the 9th , i wish i could just know. i have been down this road before.this is not the first time obviously . Any advice is greatly appreciated, just not judgements.by the way it was the withdraw .but i got prego from precum in the past. could it be possible ?
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| Subject: Women Who Have Abortions Experience Post-Traumatic Stress |
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Kris
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Date Posted: 06:59:52 02/14/08 Thu
Study Finds Women Who Have Abortions Experience Post-Traumatic Stress
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by Steven Ertelt
LifeNews.com Editor
February 13, 2008
Washington, DC (LifeNews.com) -- A new study published in the journal BMC Psychiatry finds that women who have abortions typically experience high levels of post-traumatic stress disorder. The findings mirror other research reports showing women are more likely to suffer mental health issues following abortions compared with keeping the baby.
The study appeared in the July 2007 issue of the professional psychological publication but it only coming to light now.
The research involved 155 women from South Africa who had abortions and were evaluated one month and three months afterwards.
Approximately 20 percent of the women had post-traumatic stress disorder symptoms just one month later. The results led the authors to note that "high rates of PTSD characterize women who have undergone voluntary pregnancy termination.
Looking at the women three months after the abortion, the number of women experiencing the PTSD symptoms increased 61 percent.
Dr. David Reardon, the head of the Elliot Institute and a post-abortion research who has been involved in more than a dozen studies documenting the psychological impact of abortion on women, notified LifeNews.com of the new study.
"The abortion industry should not be subjecting women to a procedure that is likely to increase or cause symptoms of post-traumatic stress or other mental health problems," he said.
"Furthermore, the evidence shows that many of these abortions are unwanted and the result of pressure or coercion from others," Reardon added. "The industry should be held liable for putting women at risk and performing unwanted and dangerous abortions."
Reardon said the researchers also examined the effect of levels of pain and post-abortion psychological outcomes.
The study found women who had received a local anesthetic versus those who had received IV sedation had higher levels of pain and were more likely to experience PTSD symptoms in the short-term but there was no long-term difference.
According to Reardon that means the abortion itself is more likely to cause the PTSD issues rather than the kind of pain management given during the abortion process.
This isn't the first study to show a link between abortion and post-traumatic stress disorders.
In a 2004 study published in the Medical Science Monitor, 65 percent of American women reported PTSD symptoms after an abortion and just over 14 percent reported all the symptoms necessary for a clinical diagnosis of PTSD.
Related web sites:
Elliot Institute - http://www.AfterAbortion.Info
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| Subject: is it to early to tell pregnancy? |
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Date Posted: 01:36:26 02/12/08 Tue
My husband and I last had unprotected sex and he injaculated in me 7 days ago..Three days later my brests wore tender and sore and they still are... My period is very irregular and sometime I may have two in one month or maybe none for several, so i cant really depend on my period to tell.. I was wondering if I got a prenancy test, would it be too soon?or could it be someething else making my breasts tender and sore??
thankx
melanie
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Subject:  If you are thinking about having an abortion... |
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Diane Cheryl
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Date Posted: 08:35:26 02/08/08 Fri
If you are thinking about having an abortion, please go to http://www.voy.com/129741/ and read the sad stories from women just like you who thought they would just have an abortion and everything would be ok. But it's not...
Please let us help you make another plan.
Sincerely,
Diane Cheryl
DCHERYL51@yahoo.com
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| Subject: pregnancy concerns |
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Date Posted: 23:49:04 02/04/08 Mon
Me and my boyfriend had protected sex, and the next day i discovered something odd when i got done peeing,it was his condom that i pulled out of my vagina. It was inside of me upside down,am i pregnant?
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| Subject: I can't make up my mind |
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Date Posted: 11:50:17 01/28/08 Mon
I really need help or advice. I'm 15 weeks pregnant with twins. I have a 7yr as well. I got pregnant last spring and found out it was twins early. Due to stress, complications and non support from the dad I had an abortion. I didn't even believe in abortions before that. Of course I was upset and depressed afterwards thinking I was less than human and I swore off sex. I went 8 months without sex and gave in (different guy). The 2nd time I gave in I got pregnant. I thought he had on protection and find out later he didn't. When I found out, I knew I was having the child because I didn't want to keep doing the alternative. I found out they are twins as well and was very excited told the whole family and my boss. Recntly I started getting scared again. One week I'm picking out names and very excited and the next week I'm terrified. I didn't start feeling this way until I hit about 12 weeks. I told my 7yr old about the twins and he is very excited, at the time I didn't intend on my feelings changing. I really don't know what to do. My stress is because of finances and support from the father who doesn't even call me anymore. My 7yr old's dad gets him 3 days a week and is very supportive. I don't know what a full time parent even feels like. I'm really scared to be single with 3 kids and I can tell you if I was financial comfortable or I had more support from the dad, I wouldn't even consider an abortion. I don't regret the first abortion to this day, does that mean I can go through it again and what do I tell my 7yr old. Or is it being twins again so soon a sign that I'm suppose to have twins. My problem is I can't decide, the clock is ticking and I don't want to regret my decision either way. Sorry so long. any advice?
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Subject:  2 Kids ? |
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KAtie (Scared)
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Date Posted: 11:16:13 01/24/08 Thu
Hi im 16 yrs old and i think i may be pregnant.
me and my Boyfriend of a yr and a half started having protected sex a few months ago.
Im 10 days late on my period and im freaking out.
neither of us want an abortion but it looks liek there is no other way, he'll get kicke dout because he already has a son he is taking care of in his parents house and they dotn want him to have another child and ill be thrown ou tand disowned. ive tried many times to get a job bu tnoone will hir eme because im a minor. he is about the start college an dbegin a life. id love to have a baby with him but i just know it isnt the right time for etiher of us, we cant afford it and we will have nowhere to go ...
HELP
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| Subject: My pregnancy |
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Cynthia (excited!)
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Date Posted: 00:09:24 01/23/08 Wed
I am 16 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been togather for almost 3 months we had sex on our first month togather now i am almost 3 months pregnant i dont know what to do either abort or have 2 kids when i have nowhere to go.My boyfriend doesnt work and i only work for a few hours implanning to abort but not tellmy boyfriend but i dont know ifthats right what should i do??
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| Subject: No Way Out! |
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Date Posted: 00:54:00 01/18/08 Fri
I am a 30yr old mother of 2 beautiful girls, ages 9yrs and 1yr. My oldest was from an 8 yr relationship that obviously did not work out and the baby is from a 5 yr relationship that has been rocky for a long, long time. I had an abortion a few years ago from the baby's father and it was one of the hardest things I think I have ever had to go through! I didn't learn. I got pregnant once again but this time I kept my baby because I made a promise to God I would never have another abortion again.
My baby is going to be 14 months old to be exact and just yesterday I found out I am once again pregnant! This man left me for 6 months when I was pregnant with my little one and that was extremely difficult, but I made it through. I had a very hard pregnancy with gestational diabetes, really bad sciatica on both sides, emotional and psychological stress and worry, finances were also a worry. I feel at this point so angry with myself that I could have allowed this to happen again, that I put myself in this situation with the feeling of NO WAY OUT!! I'm dreading the consequences of another abortion, but I just don't see any way possible for me to keep my baby. I have a job, but I don't make enough money and have been so worried about the financial burden of raising 2 children alone, not to mention having another child to support!!
I'm trying so hard not to bond with the life I have inside of me, I'm trying so hard to be cold and numb to the situation, but I must admit, I'm not doing a very good job. I made my appt. for the termination today and the lady I spoke with said there was a flag in the computer by my name because of the way I reacted to the last one and she warned me I cannot come there if I am going to react the same way. After I hung up the phone I just cried. I got so angry with myself and then with God. I was wrong for that, I know, I just couldn't help but to ask WHY??? Why did He allow me to put myself in this situation again, WHY? I guess I'll stop writing because this is starting to look more like a book rather than a post! Thanks for letting me vent! God Bless....
Lost Unicorn
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It's so sad that everything revolves around money, the Almighty Dollar! If I had the financial resources that would make it possible, I wouldn't think twice about keeping my baby!! I made choices and I made mistakes in my life, so once again I am in this situation because I allowed it. Always remember, the choices we make today will affect us tomorrow!
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| Subject: I'M SOOO SCARED |
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Kai (Distraught)
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Date Posted: 00:26:32 01/16/08 Wed
ok im 19 i graduated high school already im in my second semester of college,i have a good job grossing about 450 a month,im 3months pregnant im living on my fathers couch ,i dont believe in abortion so im going to have them its twins .the father and me have been together for about a year but this pregnancy wasnt planned , i always wanted to be married ,live in a house and be together 4 life ,but i dont know what im going to do.im soo scared and instead of him and me coming together we are pulling apart im just nervous i wont be able to fend for my children what do i do?????
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| Subject: am i pregnant? |
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Date Posted: 04:00:46 01/09/08 Wed
i am 32 days from my last cycle makin me 4 days late on my period, I always have regular periods I start on the right day n have a regular five day period. I am very tired have swollen breasts temperature keeps goin up i feel dizzy could i be pregnant? please reply asap. thnx x
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| Subject: Sex Before Marriage? |
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Diane Cheryl
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Date Posted: 01:04:18 01/08/08 Tue
Here is an article I found on http://www.lovematters.com
Sex Before Marriage?
Consider the Consequences
IF YOU WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE, YOU CAN:
Know that a person likes you because of who you are and not because you will “go all the way”
Have self-respect and respect from others because of standing firm and accomplishing a goal
Know trust, honesty and patience
Experience peace of mind
Develop true intimacy
Have a clear conscience
Have healthy relationships
Discover the true meaning of love
Share a bond with your spouse that no one else has shared
Focus on communication skills and develop non-sexual relationships
Have a solid foundation as you enter marriage
Look forward to a very special honeymoon!
Adapted from Choices/Teen Awareness, Inc.
IF YOU DON’T WAIT, ARE YOU READY FOR:
EMOTIONAL HEARTACHES
Guilt
Regrets
Loss of self-respect
Depression
Suicidal thoughts
Ruined relationships
Anger
PREGNANCY
Immediate marriage
Adoption (to place your baby with a loving family)
Single parenthood
Abortion’s consequences
STDS AND OTHER HEALTH PROBLEMS
AIDS
Syphilis
Gonorrhea
Herpes
Chlamydia
Genital warts
Vaginal infections
Sterility risks
Cervical cancer
Breast cancer
(WARNING! Even if you use contraceptives, you’re still at risk for heartaches, pregnancy and STDs.)
“Living Together” Doesn’t Work
Research shows that marriages that started out as live-together unions have a 50 percent higher divorce rate.
Source: “The Role of Cohabitation in Declining Rates of Marriage,” Journal of Marriage and the Family, v53, 1991, pp. 913-927
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| Subject: Scared |
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Eric
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Date Posted: 00:17:34 01/05/08 Sat
me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time a couple days ago. it was january second and she normally has her periods at the end of the month. afterwards she was saying how she had stomach pains and a headache. its only been a day and she has stomach pains that feel sharp. is this bad?
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| Subject: Could I be pregnant? |
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Date Posted: 08:51:59 01/02/08 Wed
My husband and I had unprotected sex on Dec. 29, 2007. He doesn't know for sure if he came in me. He says he had signs like tingling but we kept going and he came when we got done (not in me).
I was wandering if I could be pregnant. My period is like clockwork on the 10th of every month. I was on Birth Control pill seasonale for about 9 months and stopped taking it about 3-4 months ago.
I am having breat soreness but that usually occurs about a week before my period. Since, my period is due on the 10 of Jan 2008, that might be a sign of my period fixing to come on.
Please let me know what you think.
We both want children but with me just being done with College and trying to find a job, this might be kinda hard to handle....but we will see!
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| Subject: Could I be pregnant? |
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Date Posted: 09:33:07 12/28/07 Fri
Hi my name is ashley and i'm 18 me and my boyfriend had sex on Dec.9,2007 and about week later my peiord came on but after it went off i started to feel nausa and sick on the stomach and i have been sleeping alot i havent been on birthcontrol in a month so could i still be preganet?
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| Subject: can this be possible???? |
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danielle (worried)
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Date Posted: 06:15:16 12/26/07 Wed
HI my name is danielle iam 20 years olds and heres my story.... me and my b/f have been having unprotected sex now for a month, but he does use the "pul out" method! i normally start my period on the 29th and go on into the next month and bleed very heavy for the first few days, well this time i started dec.23 and was bleeding very very lightly and no cramps what so ever! and then two days later i am only bleeding like one to two drops NO MORE THAN THAT??? could i be pregnant??? or am i just over reacting???
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| Subject: Unknown if pregnant. on pins and needles |
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Kim
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Date Posted: 23:45:39 12/24/07 Mon
My period came on between the 8 and the 9 of Dec. I had sex during the late hours of the 19 and early hours of the 20. Was I fertile at the time to have gotten pregnant. I dont know my exact ovulation date. Nevertheless, I have never missed a period. Every 28 Days, like clock work.
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| Subject: Jaimie Lynn Spears - 16 & pregnant |
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Kris
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Date Posted: 08:15:23 12/19/07 Wed
"It was a shock for both of us, so unexpected," she said. "I was in complete and total shock and so was he."
Spears is 12 weeks along and initially kept the news to herself when she learned of the pregnancy from an at-home test and subsequent doctor visit, she told the celebrity magazine, which hits stands in New York on Wednesday and the rest of the country by Friday.
What message does she want to send to other teens about premarital sex?
******"I definitely don't think it's something you should do; it's better to wait," she told the magazine.*******
"But I can't be judgmental because it's a position I put myself in."
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By the time you're reading this from today's news, you are probably in the same spot - or worried that you are in the same spot - an unplanned pregnancy.
I found it interesting that her wise observation is to advise young ladies (and men) to abstain, to WAIT for sex.
If you end up not pregnant at this time, give some serious thought to being sexually active until you're married.
Kris
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| Subject: Re: One Week After Conception Symptoms? |
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Date Posted: 21:30:50 12/18/07 Tue
i had my period nov. 24,2007 and it went off bout the 31st i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend the 1st of dec.2007. it is now dec. 18,2007 and i've been throwing up and my breast are really sore and i've been feelin pain in my lower back and both of my sides and its is very hard to sleep comfortably at night and i have been urinatin alot since then could i be pregnant?????
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| Subject: Top Ten Signs You are Pregnant |
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Kris
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Date Posted: 20:58:27 12/18/07 Tue
• 10. Tender, swollen breasts
• 9. Fatigue
• 8. Implantation bleeding
• 7. Nausea or vomiting
• 6. Increased sensitivity to odors
• 5. Abdominal bloating
• 4. Frequent urination
• 3. A missed period
• 2. Your basal body temperature stays high
• 1. The proof: A positive pregnancy test
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| Subject: could it happen? |
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ashlynn (confused)
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Date Posted: 14:35:20 12/18/07 Tue
ok so i started dating this guy and we have been having unprotected sex since we been together,BUT he DOES pull out, i have had friends tell me that pre cum is just as bad as the real thing, is this true??? whats my percent of gettin preg even if he does pull out?? we do it like almost every night but i just dont like condoms and aint sure how likely it is for me to become preg.please help me!
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| Subject: I've been on ortho evra for 5 years and after i got my period i didn't put it back on and had sex |
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Janna (scared)
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Date Posted: 22:02:42 12/16/07 Sun
well... ive been on ortho evra for 5 years and i had my period but ive had morning sickness for like a month now b.c last month i had sex without it on and he didnt pull out. NOW i havent had it on for a week we had sex twice and he didnt pull out and i wonder if i am pregnate should i put my patch back on because i dont wanna kill the baby if i am PLEASE GET BACK TO ME AS SOON AS YOU CAN..
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| Subject: The Burden of Hope |
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Kris
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Date Posted: 11:13:34 12/14/07 Fri
The Burden of Hope
From Jars of Clay
“Christmas Reflections”
“But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.” Luke 2:19
Christmas comes each year with its dangerous invitation to hope. Yet for most of us, this invitation feels more like an inconvenience and a burden. We see this burden from the very beginning, as Mary herself pondered the meaning of all of these things, I wonder how many of her personal hopes and dreams were on the altar at this moment. Surely this was not the life that she had dreamed for herself, and who could possibly understand the road that she was about to walk? Who would go with her? As she began to consider all that she would lose along this journey the invitation to hope must have felt callous and far-fetched.
If you are like me this is where most of my adult Christmas’ have been spent, burdened and heavy under the Hope that promises much but asks for everything along the way. Maybe this is your story this year, maybe your losses have been deep and painful. Maybe you stand in the reality of every Christmas from now on being a bitter reminder of those that are no longer with you, and things that have been lost along the way. If this is you take courage from Mary who somehow found a way to move from deep pondering and introspection to singing. Somewhere along the road the question of her life ceases to become “If you knew me and loved me God how could you ask this of me” to “God who do you see when you look at me?” Somewhere along the way her hope was unfettered to all those good things that she had hoped her life would be and became anchored to God’s hopes for her.
“for he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed,” – Luke 2:48
**Mary walked in your shoes - she knew the frightening feelings of being an unwed mother - and she knew she was facing stoning (the death penalty) for her position. Remember that God is with you in your situation, He will see you through the tough time.
Kris
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Krista
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Date Posted: 22:32:51 12/12/07 Wed
i just found out a few days ago that i am about 4-5 weeks preg. i dont know what to do.. im not with the guy.. and it was totally unplaned.. im thinking about taking the pill form of abortion. i have an apt. on monday.. but i dont know if thats what i really wanna do. my main fear is that for the past month.. i have been getting wasted.. like bad every weekend.. and smoking weed once in a while. i dont want the baby to have defects if i decided to have it.. what are the chances of it being messed up from me doing so much partying the first month of development? HEEEELLLP!
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| Subject: Am I pregnant or what? Please help |
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Sarah (worried)
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Date Posted: 22:52:29 12/11/07 Tue
Hi, im Sarah, and im 15 years old. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend who ive been dating for a year. We had sexual intercourse 2 months ago and since then I havent had my period Ive had a few symptoms such as:
fatique, sleepiness, drowsiness, swollen and tender breast, hoorible pains in my sides and also 2 cases of morning sickness.
But i havent took a test yet but i am soon, but today i started to bleed a very slimy brownish color for a hour or so ... Can any on give me advice andtell me if yall think im pregnant or not and what is the brownish stuff is that my period im so confused and so young please help..
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| Subject: Doctor's don't know everything |
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Kris
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Date Posted: 09:01:05 12/11/07 Tue
Heisman Trophy Winner Tim Tebow Could Have Been a Victim of Abortion Email this article
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by Steven Ertelt
LifeNews.com Editor
December 9, 2007
New York, NY (LifeNews.com) -- University of Florida quarterback Tim Tebow became the first sophomore in the history of the NCAA to win the coveted Heisman Trophy as the best football player in the nation. However, Tebow's accomplishments may never have been supported had his mother followed a doctor's recommendation to have an abortion.
With 29 passing touchdowns and 22 rushing touchdowns, Tebow displayed the kind of versatility that has become more valued at the quarterback position.
Pam Tebow and her husband were Christian missionaries in the Philippines in 1985 and they prayed for "Timmy" before she became pregnant.
Unfortunately, as the Gainesville Sun reports, Pam entered into a coma after she contracted amoebic dysentery, an infection of the intestine caused by a parasite found in a contaminated food or drink.
The treatment for the medical condition would require strong medications that doctors told Pam had caused irreversible damage to Tim -- so they advised her to have an abortion.
As the Sun reported, Pam Tebow refused the abortion and cited her Christian faith as the reason for her hope that her son would be born without the devastating disabilities physicians predicted.
Pam ultimately spent the last two months of her pregnancy in bed and, eventually, gave birth to a health baby boy in August 1987.
As she told the newspaper, Pam was not surprised that her son would be up for the Heisman despite no underclassman receiving the award since its inception in 1933.
"The combination of Timmy's God-given talent, hard work, character and leadership have made a mark on and off the football field," she said.
As prominent researcher Joel Brind writes in a new LifeNews.com editorial, doctors are frequently telling women they should consider abortions when confronted with various medical situations affecting their health.
Yet, as he notes, physicians can successfully treat both mother and child without suggesting that the baby be killed to spare a mother's life.
Because Tim Tebow was spared, he's wowed a nation by his athletic skill and, at his younger age, has an opportunity to become the second person to win two Heisman awards.
Printed from: http://www.lifenews.com/nat3523.html
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| Subject: Advice Needed A.S.A.P. Please |
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Date Posted: 20:24:51 12/07/07 Fri
Okay. I've never done a forum thing but i need help!!
My periods are very regular, and usually last 6 days.
My last period was November 6 through the 12th.
On November 21 I had a pap smear done so I could get started on birth control when my next period started.
I was in a 7 month relationship which broke off around the time i got my pap smear, it was an emotional crisis for me. We talk about getting back together, and then staying friends...It's immature I know, but the stress is overwhelming.
Him & I had sex on November 29. He went for a little, and then stopped, and we did other things until he ejaculated to make sure nothing happened. We had always used condoms, except that time.
I was his first person to have sex with and he didn't want to just have sex with anyone else when he hadn't been in a relationship with them, and he still has strong feelings for me.
It's now December 7 leaving me late by a day!!
I'm having mild cramping, but no period...
Could it just be the stress from the break up, or is it more likely that i could be pregnant?
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| Subject: pregnant and need to decide |
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Anna (confused and sad)
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Date Posted: 14:52:59 12/05/07 Wed
Well I'm 22 years old and I'm 12 weeks 5 days pregnant and I feel very bad for not making my decission yet. There are many cons to having this baby in my opinion. The father of the baby is now my ex boyfriend and is seeing someone else, he doesn't have a proper job and is having financial prolems. He's also not emotionally supportive, only seeing my once in a while,although he's for me keeping the baby. However, he spends all his time with his new girlfriend and doesn't have time for me and my needs when I need him. I also have financial problems and my family isn't in a position where they would be able to help me. I also feel like if I have a baby now I will not be able to help my parents and my family, financially in the future...we have a lot of money problems. My parents also don't like my ex boyfriend because he has lied and betrayed me in the past, and also because he has been in trouble with the law. If they found out about me being pregnant with his baby they would be extremly dissapointed and shocked. I don't know how my family would react and I don't want to be the cause of putting stress and problems on my family, I'm afraid it would make me and my family grow apart. I have already had 3 abortions and I don't know how having another one would make me feel, I feel like I'm too weak and I feel bad for not being strong enough.After my last abortion I felt depressed for a while, and constantly kept asking myself "what if i kept my baby". It's very painful to be preganant and not have the father around, especially knowing he's with someone else, someone who he left me for and caused me a lot of heartache. I just want to move on and forget about him, but how can I if I'm pregnant with his baby? I don't think I'm strong enough to do it on my own. He says he will be with me when the baby comes, but I don't believe him. He's so careless with my emotions and doesn't understand that being pregnant isn't easy. io haven't told anyone in my family yet, but I know that I would be too embarrased to live at home with my mother and my uncle if I kept the baby because it's my uncle's house and he has been kind enough to let my mom and I stay with him for many years, I would dissapoint him and my father who lives in a nother country very much. Where would I live? How will I afford this baby?
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| Subject: Re: One Week After Conception Symptoms? |
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Date Posted: 14:44:53 11/27/07 Tue
hey me and my boyfriend have sex like every couple days..my period is not expected until the fourth of december..today is the 27th of november..i have been feeling dizzy and been nauseated..but every time i feel as though i am about to throw up i just gag and nothing comes up.Is it possible to be having pregnancy symptoms this early in the game?
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| Subject: Funding Issues |
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Date Posted: 20:07:44 11/17/07 Sat
Hello all. I am in a tight spot and wondered if anyone had any ideas. I am just a couple of weeks pregnant and am planning on having an abortion. Obviously, time is an issue here in terms of raising the money for the procedure. My husband and I are both in college and money is extremely tight; does anyone know of any types of public or private funding that I might take advantage of to help pay for the prodecure? Thanks for any suggestions.
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| Subject: Am I pregnant? |
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Date Posted: 01:05:54 11/15/07 Thu
Well, i am 19 and two months ago i met this guy at work who is 36. He came up to me to ask how my mother was. I didnt know him from adam and i didnt think about him after that. Days later he started talking to me and then talking, went into flirting and then just about 11 days ago, i had sex with him and he was my first but it was unprotected. About four days later my breasts/nipples started to get sore and tender and i've been feeling really nauseas and started cramping and been very bloated but today i got my period and its regular but it came like over a week early and some of my friends have been telling me that i might be pregnant even though i have my period cause their mom's had their periods up to the day they gave birth to their children so i was wondering if i should still go and get tested by a doctor? Oh ontop of that, this man is very fertile and already has five other kids.
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| Subject: Am I pregnant or overthinking the situation? |
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Brione
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Date Posted: 00:33:58 11/06/07 Tue
my period has been irregular since the age of 14. i got on the pill when i was 16, and i started to become regular. i got off the pill, and it went back to being irregular. i am now 17, and i took the birthcontrol shot once about 6 months ago. i know by now it would have worn off, and it could be a chance that i am pregnant. lately i have been very tired, moody, i cry sometimes for no reason, and i am very bloated. my breast don't hurt like i hear a lot of people say when they get pregnant, but my nipples are very sensative. what has really been bothering me though is my lower back. it just won't stop hurting. could that also been a sign of pregnancy, or not really? i really have a couple of questions, so if someone could please help me i would really appreciate it.
~is it possible to get pregnant when u have an irregurlar period?
~does back pain have anything to do with it?
~how soon after pregnancy do u start to show?
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| Subject: so scared |
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Date Posted: 13:55:26 11/05/07 Mon
ok heres the deal! i went to the dr and i had chilmidia i got treated,not knowing how long i had had it and i ended up sleepin with the same person and caught it agian four months ago, and still havent got treated, we have been having unprotected sex for 5.5months now and i still havent ended up preg....then a friend said if i kept that disease so long that it could make it where i couldnt have any more kids. how long can you have it till this happens???
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| Subject: Feeling a little stressed |
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Date Posted: 22:35:38 10/31/07 Wed
I am having an abortion in 2 weeks or so. I have weighed out all the pros and cons. I jus wish there was more positive support. I know I am doing the right thing, I am scared about the procedure.
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| Subject: Confused about everything |
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Date Posted: 21:04:59 10/30/07 Tue
Well hi everyone im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19.We've been together for 3months and i just found out im pregnant.I told him and he's happy and all but today we were talking and he said"i dont want it anymore".i started crying because i thought we were on the same mindset.He said he has enough money for me to get an abortion.I dont want one,i wanna keep my baby.My moms gonna be mad but i dont care.I dont know what to do.......i wanna keep my baby but i cant do it by myself.Can someone help me please.Thanks
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| Subject: Re: What are my chances of being pregnant or just a worry wart!! |
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Allison (Nervous)
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Date Posted: 20:23:50 10/28/07 Sun
I'm worried about being pregnant. Although I've been on the pill for nearly 10 months, I took it about 8 hours late on Wednesday.. I ended up having sex on Thursday, as well. I think I'm worrying myself sick, but I really am scared.. What do you think my chances are?
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| Subject: ? |
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Stephanie (happy)
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Date Posted: 01:31:00 10/28/07 Sun
if i had sex on sunday will i be able to tell am pregnant or see signs dat am pregnant
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| Subject: What should i do!?! |
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Jenny (confused)
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Date Posted: 00:22:42 10/25/07 Thu
Im 17 and ive had unprotected sex with my bf quite a few times, and im pregnant. I haven't told him yet, but i kind of hinted to it, and he said if i turn up pregnant at any time that i should get an abortion. He is 18 and already has a kid. But i dont believe in abortions, and i dont want to get one, bc i could never live with the fact that i killed my own child! what should i do?!
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| Subject: Need advise |
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Date Posted: 15:15:11 10/19/07 Fri
Okay i'm the boyfriend i'm 16 written this i know its weird but who cares but me and my girlfriend for 1 yr. and 9 monthe, .. well she just turned 18 this year and we stop having unprotected sex after she turned 18 then a week after her birthday she's knowing that she's pragnant but we havent went to the doctor yet but are soon . Is she goin to get into trouble for being pregnant being with me cause i'm still underage? we are still together but we dont have sex anymore .. And if we go to the doctor will they ask my age if i said i was the father? I look older then her i'm scared i want to be with her and my baby .. My mother knows about this and she is happy but i'm just need advise from someone who knows ...but i dont no what to do .. Please help me
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| Subject: Worried |
Author:
Luci (down)
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Date Posted: 00:18:12 10/17/07 Wed
hi.. i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on sunday the 14th in the morning..since then i havnt been feeling very well..getting cramps and sore breasts .. but iam due on round about the 18th... i have jus come on today at dinner time ( tues 16th ), does this now mean iam not pregnant? or should i take a test? if so when?x
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| Subject: Irregular periods, possible pregnancy? |
Author:
Victoria
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Date Posted: 23:45:37 10/16/07 Tue
I have had irregular periods for a few years now, off and on. I have only been on birth control for 6 mo (that was 6 yrs ago!) so it's not due to that. My period was starting on Oct 2nd, but my fiance and I had unprotected sex that night (but he did not finish inside me). Subsequently my period never continued. I am having no symptoms whatsoever but here at 15 days past a regular period date I still have yet to get it. I am highly stressed right now; could that cause me to miss a period? I am scheduled for pregnancy test on Friday. Please pray for me to be content with the results. Thank you.
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| Subject: HELP??????? |
Author:
*ME*
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Date Posted: 18:39:19 09/30/07 Sun
ok i am 16 and i am dating a guy who i 18!!! we are having sex and i am on ortho evra birth control patch!! he all ways trys to pull out!!! BUT anyways... ok i just had my period and i was supposta put back on my patch friday but i forgot.. and we had sex... he kept pulling out and i asked him why.. he said i think i am bout to cum... so i started to give him a blowjob and it took him like forever to cum...he thinks he |
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