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Subject: Polygamy Author: Berry [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 18:36:30 10/19/02 Sat Author Host/IP: rdu57-78-245.nc.rr.com/66.57.78.245 Is it lawful for a muslim to take a second wife even though he did not have sex with his first wife for a week. There was nothing physically wrong with the first wife that they could not have sex. My second question is if a wife has performed oral sex on her husband and he ejaculates before insertion does she have to make ghusl? And my last question is should a muslim leave his wife alone for the weekend while he marries another muslimah? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Polygamy Author: M. MORSY [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:48:12 10/19/02 Sat Author Host/IP: mt.24.171.69.29.charter-stl.com/24.171.69.29 ALHAMDLILLAH. It is lawful for a muslim to take a second wife as long as he can take care of 2 wives ,giving them their rights. Among The actions that require Ghusl are: 1- Discharge of al-Mani owing to stimulation while asleep or awake . The opinion of the jurists in general is that ghusl is a must should one have a discharge of al-mani (sperm) owing to stimulation while asleep or awake. Abu Sa'eed reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, upon whom be peace, say, "Water (washing) is (needed) after (ejaculation of) sperm." (Related by Muslim.) Umm Salamah reported that Umm Sulaim said, "O Messenger of Allah, Allah is not ashamed of the truth. Does a woman have to perform ghusl if she has a wet dream?" He said, "Yes, if she sees the liquid." (Related by al-Bukhari, Muslim and others.) . 2- Touching the two circumcised parts . This refers to the penis and the vagina. If one's penis has entered his wife's vagina, ghusl is obligatory even if there was no ejaculation. Says Allah, "If you are sexually impure, purify yourselves." Commenting on the subject, ash-Shaifi says, "In the Arabic language, sexual impurity refers to any type of sexual intercourse, regardless of whether sperm was ejaculated or not. If someone says, 'So and so is sexually impure due to so and so,' it refers to any type of sexual intercourse between them, even if there was no ejaculation. No one disagrees that the fornication which requires the prescribed punishment is sexual intercourse, even if there is no ejaculation." Abu Hurairah reported that the Prophet, upon whom be peace, said, "When anyone sits between the four parts of her body and exerts himself (has intercourse), bathing becomes obligatory (for both)." (Related by Ahmad and Muslim.) The muslim can leave his wife alone for the weekend while he marries another muslimah if it is safe to leave here,otherwise he should arrange a safe place for here. Allah Knows Best.