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Subject: Re: my decision

Author:
Heather

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Date Posted: 07/18/06 4:55pm
In reply to: Jacqueline 's message, "Re: my decision" on 07/18/06 1:15pm

Hi Jacequeline,

Please know that you will be in the prayers of many, and you're totally welcome here regardless of what choice you wind up making.

With Kindness,

Heather

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[> [> Subject: Re: my decision

Author:
luka
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Date Posted: 07/18/06 5:00pm

I'm not going to give you a hard time about your decision. I have had abortions myself i am in no position to judge you. It's just that all of us women can hear very clearly that you want to keep your baby and we know that when those feelings exist they don't go away after you terminate the babys life. We don't want you to suffer and yes we don't want you to kill your child. But none of us can stop you from doing it either we can only listen and advise you should you ask us what we think. Like i have said before we have nothing personally to gain from telling you you shouldn't abort. I have been there though and i know that every pregnancy i wanted my baby and the ones i terminated still haunt me today. It's no small thing to have an abortion it truely is killing another human being, your own baby. I have tried my best to explain the feelings i had after having an abortion but words are probably futile to truely explain. But you feel it -this gut feeling right down in the pit of your stomach. Maybe you go ahead with the abortion because some part of you thinks it doesn't count as a life but you feel it -i felt it- afterwards. Its a tangible feeling of losing something- someone. I guess youre about to find out what i am talking about soon enough...