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Subject: Re: First pregnancy Author: Rachel [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07/21/06 5:43am In reply to: Tracey 's message, "Re: First pregnancy" on 07/20/06 1:06pm I am pro-choice, but I am realistic. I think that abortion is the harder road. Esp. since you have already felt an attachment to your baby. Making a decision out of consideration for fear,money, or another person will only make you suffer. This is just as true for the person who leaves a job they love for a job that makes more money, or the person who won't leave home out of fear for the unknown.... this will haunt you for the rest of your life. I know, from experience. I also know, from experience, the unbelievable joy your baby will bring....and that it isn't half as hard to have a baby as society makes it seem. my children are my constant companions and make me laugh even when I am feeling down. I was SO close to having an abortion 10 months ago. Ask these ladies here. Or, go back and read my story and others in the forum archives. I was in a terrible relationship and had no money but still made it happen, and when I look at my daughter's little chubby face while she serenely sleeps I am thankful I didn't. She chose me and her big brother to come live out her time on earth with us. and with the way things are in the world, you never know how much time we have to love each other here in tihs life. each moment is golden to me. I wish for you happiness... please keep us posted, ok? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]