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Subject: Re: Child not wanted by father

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Jennifer (broken)

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Date Posted: 04/ 5/09 12:06pm
In reply to: Tracy (Australia) 's message, "Re: Child not wanted by father" on 04/ 1/09 11:51am

I thank you all for your support and kind words. It has gotten worse on his end, he went ahead and married the other woman, and she owns an insurance company that he once ran and he signed it over to her. They make well over 3 figures a year. He dropped off the keys to his Jeep which is in my name and said good luck paying for it, its your problem not mine. and he has over $600 in parking tickets (due within 2 weeks)that I am now going to have to pay-because the jeep is registered in my name. I am in a year long apartment lease that I can't afford-he just moved out 3 weeks ago, and when I move they said they will collect the money I owe for breaking the lease - well over a few thousand dollars. He used my credit card to make some purchases and hasn't given me one dime. He is coming to take all the furniture from my apartment because he said it was bought when he was working and I was "just a stay at home mom".

He Said "good luck collecting child support or getting any of the money that I may owe you-I have no income to claim." He has been smart and put everything in her name, and the money he promised me he said he will not give me any help unless I have the abortion-or sign over custody of the child once it is born to him and her.

I know my family will be supportive in all ways, and even his-they have talked to me and told me we all need to take responsiblity for our actions, including their son, but they can only asked him to do the right thing they can not make him anymore he is 37.

At church today they talked about when you become broken is when God shows himself to you and helps and let you become all you were meant to be. I just wonder how much worse can it get.

PS yesterday he called the child an abomination...no way can I let him have this child---i know they are just words but its wrong to say that about something you created-all I can think is he feels so bad about what he has done in the past to use and hurt me before the divorce and since that he takes out his own negative feelings about himself and transposes them to me.

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