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Subject: Re: need advice

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Nicole

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Date Posted: 07/29/09 8:51am
In reply to: Lori 's message, "Re: need advice" on 07/28/09 1:18pm

Hi, I am doing okay. I haven't told my husband yet. We've been getting along well, and he's been so nice to me that I'm just terrified to ruin everything. I am going to get an ultrasound on Friday to see exactly how far along I am.

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Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 07/29/09 7:34pm

Hi, Nicole,

I can appreciate the position you find yourself in. One thing I would like to mention, though is that if you were to try to cover up the situation, not only might it come out (especially if you decide to try abortion and you get hurt), but you will never really know how deep the reconciliation truly is. If you can tell your husband and he accepts it, you will have much more confidence that you can work things out.

I suggest that you find an organization in your area, and go talk to them about how best to tell your husband about this. You can find one by going here:

pregnancycenters.org.

Try to relax a little. I know it's hard, but try anyway. Take one day at a time. You might feel him out about how he would feel. Since he doesn't want to talk about your dalliance, that may be difficult, but regardless of what you do, it needs to be resolved. One suggestion is simply to pose a hypothetical. You know a woman who... What would he advise her to do?

Good luck. We will be praying for you. If your getting back together is meant to be, you will work things out.

Hugs,
Pat

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Re: need advice

Author:
Lori
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Date Posted: 07/31/09 12:46pm

Hi Nicole,

I just wanted to know how your ultrasound appointment went today. I know that this must be tough for you. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated and let us know how thing are going. If you need to talk about anything feel free to email me. I also have msn messenger if you would like to chat. My email address for my messenger is Lorik71798@hotmail.com.

Take Care,
Lori