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Subject: a question for all the ladies on this board

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luka

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Date Posted: 03/12/08 8:14pm

I was just wondering, thinking really about what i would do if i were to find myself pregnant again. I have NO plans of it thank you very much lol. I am a single mom and have 4 children and only two hands haha. But i was thinking , what if? You know as you do. And i would feel very torn. I wouldn't have an abortion but i would probably think about it if i am to be completely honest. I know alot of us who give advice here feel that they have completed their families also. And i just wondered how you all would get around the practicallity of it all having an unplanned child when youre not in a position to have any more , not to mention comming to terms with it. I know another part of me would be excited. But wow it would really be tough for me financially and physically ect. Anyway just wondered what the other ladies here would do..

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Jess (:-|)
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Date Posted: 04/27/08 8:23pm

I am a new mom and was not in a good position to have a baby. I was under a lot of pressure and stress from the father not to have him. I never thought I would consider abortion but with the stress that I had, I have to admit it did cross my mind even though I am totally against it. I guess now I can see why some women choose abortion and it is very sad because it seems to be a decision made out of desperation and probably not a decision of the heart. I am so glad that I kept my baby even though I still have many issues and am struggling with depression some days, I really believe I would be worst off if I had aborted him.