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Subject: young and dont know what to do

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Jalisa (Happy)

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Date Posted: 04/24/08 1:45pm

My name is Jalisa and I'm only 15 years old I am now 4months and has stressed my famikt out a lot. My mother says she's over it but i can see right through her she's happy now because she figures she has no other choice. My grandmother wanted me to get an ABORTION but my pastor wouldn't allow it, as my mother was driving to the clinic i cried the whole way their it hurted so bad. I eventually cried to much and didn't get an ABORTION i was so happy she didn't make me. Alot of heads were turned against me and my feelings were hurt at first, i eventually got over it and didn't let it get to me. My babys father is sometiming meaning one day he wants to be their and another day he says its not his. I was seeing someone at the time but i cheated on him with my babys father. I know i'm young and all but i really loved this person alot i had been talking to him for a while he was my real first boyfriend. My mother didn't want me to talk to him because she figured he was to old for me she threatend to get him locked up and for me to stay away from him. Our parents wanted us to stay aay from each other but we didn't listen we were to much in love with each other and couldn't stand to be away from each other for along time not even 2 hours. When i finally told my lover i was pregnant he was happy but ii could't not tell him it wasn't his so i told him. He was dissapointed and keeped his distance even though we didn't want to. My babys father doesn't want to be around because he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to tell her but i still talk to him and show him the ultursound pictures. I think he wants to be around but wants to be with his girlffriend. I really want him to be around often. I wish someone would talk some since into him. I'm not going to let anyone get in the way because either way i'm still going to make it. I have my FAMILY behind me 100%.

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