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Re: I need a hug

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Donna

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Date Posted: 03/16/07 2:06pm
In reply to: Mary 's message, "I need a hug" on 03/14/07 4:05pm

Awe ~ Mary~ Sending you a big {{HUG}} ,
I know it's so hard to be young, working hard with a job and school too. I think it's completely normal to have bad days, where you have thoughts like this. I think most women that are pregnant have bad days, frustrated with their bodies , their clothes. You are feeling overwhelmed right now. I promise you that when you get to the end of this journey and you see your precious baby, that came into the world, only because you cared and nurtured it for 9 long months, you feel a love like you've only imagined right before your very eyes.

Come here anytime you need to vent, we are here for you !!

Donna

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Pat
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Date Posted: 05/ 2/07 7:49pm

Mary,

I just thought I'd stop by and give you a hug. {{{{{Mary}}}}} I hope you get to see it. I hope you're feeling better today. Please don't worry about how your feelings about being pregnant will affect your ability to be a good mother. They are totally different things! Men have no idea what it's like to be pregnant. Believe me if they had to do it, they'd be wimps! They aren't designed for it. Maybe Ryan felt he needed to tell you so you could fix your zipper. A lot depends on whether he said it in a kind or offhand way, or in some other way. Pregnancy only lasts nine months, and when you look back you'll miss the intimacy you have with your baby. Just hang in there, and take one day at a time. You will be fine, even though it doesn't seem like it right now.

Pat