Author:
Antonella (;) this si for YOU!)
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Date Posted: 07/13/07 3:50am
Hi!! I am writing you from Italy, I had some experience like yours: I was 22 years old when I had an unplanned pregnancy. I was studying at college and I had just won a 1 year schoolship for an Internship in UCLA, a very few people in my town could get it and I was one of them! To spend 1 whole year in California, LA, in a real American College! well, before the trip I found to be pregnant and I was with my son's father since only 3 months and he was 19 years old without a job or a school degree! I planned the abortion but I felt the baby growing up day by day inside me, do you know what I mean??? so when that day came, I didn't go to the clinic, I decided for LIFE, the best challenge, my parents didn't support me at all and I must move in my ex's house with his family. It wasn't easy, at all, I am sincere. My son was the only cool and good thing I had ;) and the day he was born, it was also my mother's birthday and SHE was the first one to visit me in the hospital! About my College, I finished my College in Italy, studying in my free time and now I am 27 years old, with a 5 years old son and an Economics Degree, next year I am planning the Master. Noone is supporting me, NOONE! The father of my son is still having fun in clubs, drinking and doing crazy things, we quit since almost 2 years (just realized that people could come and go but I have my son here with me)- I am doing apprentice-auditor and waitress twice a week in a restaurant- LIFE isn't easy, but it's beautiful and "crazy"! Now I am with a new boyfriend, a guy who had experienced 4 times, I mean 4 TIMES, abortion with his ex girlfriends- he didn't keep his own babys in past- He was totally ignorant about periods, pills and so on - his last gf told him she was on pill, while she used to "forget" it! just to keep him, can you believe it? it sucks- now I explained him everything (my point of view and my experience), he understood and now he really loves and plays with my son. They are a team together, but I think he will understand all once he will be married and have own family and kids- life is very weird, we live something then we are at the "opposite" side- I can just suggest you first of all to pray God, then to behave as you feel, as YOU want because your life is only YOURS! take care, ciao bella!
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