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Subject: Re: im freaking out!!

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Heather

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Date Posted: 11/13/06 10:25pm
In reply to: SabrinaLee 's message, "Re: im freaking out!!" on 11/12/06 6:18am

I forgot to add that I agree wholeheartedly with Lisa about not worrying about the father right now. The odds are considerably in favor of him eventually coming around to be supportive of this new little person, but regardless your primary concern should be your well-being and following your instincts of what you know is right.

If it's of any help, one book I found to be a lifesaver during my pregnancies was a well known one called, "What to Expect When You're Expecting." It answers every conceivable question a pregnant woman could have at every step of the way. I'd also recommend taking a prenatal vitamin as right now your little one is growing a mile a minute.

Heather

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Re: im freaking out!!

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Tracey
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Date Posted: 11/17/06 2:50pm

SabrinaLee~
Hello and welcome to our board! I have to apologize for not being around lately! I have four little ones and they have all had the flu all week on top of my oldest, Logan, has croup! Yikes! Thank God it's all over! :)
First, I want to congratulate you! I know you are probably over-whelmed right now but try and remember that's why God gave us 9 months to plan! ;) I know the baby's father isn't being all that supportive right now, but hopefully he'll come around. Most often it takes men alot longer to come to terms with the fact that they are going to be a father...sometimes until they see that little one in the flesh. Just give him some time...you have to remember that guys don't bond like we, as women do right away. Mostly because we are this little one's home. They are growing right beneath our hearts. We feel the flutters and the first kicks and near the end, the punches! ;)
As far as daycare goes, where do you live? I can try and do research in your area and let you know if I find something. Keep us posted and let us know how your Dr. appt. went!
God bless,
Tracey