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Subject: Re: Upfront would be very good but...

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Date Posted: Fri 30 December, 2005 07:43:48
In reply to: Jack 's message, "Re: Upfront would be very good but..." on Thu 29 December, 2005 17:46:21

Don't assume that donors who are willing to travel are trying to get sex. I've refused NI offers from several women, but have planned trips and vacations around recipients' fertile times for AI donations. I know the idea of a man turning down NI may come across as strange to some people, especially men who see donation primarily as a way to get sex, women who assume that's all men care about, or women who have had bad experiences with a donor being pushy for NI. But some men simply don't do casual sex. Ever. And some donors will go out of their way to help with AI, because sex has nothing to do with our reason for donating.

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>you planned your vacation around this event and you
>gave her ai...not ni like so many only want to do. If
>this is the case and you only gave her ai, then that
>is commendable.
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>>I did.
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>>I had a recipient who were looking for a donation, and
>>happened to live about an hour's drive from my
>>mother's house; my wife and I arranged our vacations
>>to coincide with the times that the recipient was
>>fertile.

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