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Date Posted: 19:55:10 06/14/05 Tue
Author: Tina Marie Jackson
Subject: My beautifull Tommy is gone @ only 18 months!

I'm really lost! I need help! My third child Tommy past on June 3, 2005. I'm an EMT I started the training to help my children and others all it did was confirm the worst. I went from MOM mode to EMT mode he died of traumatic asphixiation when he climed into a small (a little larger than a nightstand) dresser and it slowly tipped on a 45 degree angle he was 18 months old it had child safty locks on it untill my oldest son broke them off he did it in the middle of the night when my oldest was at his dad's house (they share a room) I saved my son an autotopsy by taking photos before EMS arrived and ruined the scene (crime scene integrety is part of the training) I speak about it as if he was another patient but I can't look at clothes and we were talking about having my IUD pulled in order to have another child in november (tommy was born november 11 right before my birthday on the 30th) but now my daughter is 4 my son will be 6 in august I'm thinking about having one now not that it will ever replace tommy. letting him go was horrible I just want to keep everything. OH and SOMEBODY REALLY needs to come up with another alternative other than burial or creamation! I really freaked out the funeral director. I need help and people to talk to me email please as I like private converations this is hard enough oh and if you have a similar experience with a youger sibling passing I need insight to my 6 year olds mind he is so.... frank everything just comes out of his mouth with no emotion

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