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Date Posted: 10:31:44 10/29/05 Sat
Author: kristi
Subject: Re: The loss of my only child
In reply to: Renee Gray 's message, "The loss of my only child" on 11:46:20 10/17/04 Sun

Hi Rene,
i am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son.i was reading your post and tears welled up in my eyes as i understand truly how you feel.i also lost my son just this past june 19th on fathers day 2005 due to an accidental drowning he was just 15 years old.and with you,my sons father was not in his life,so i was also my sons best friend and he definitely was mine.There is so much hurt and heartache that comes from a death, especially being the mom.i am so sorry that you also,have to feel this unbearable pain.i have found that if we tell ourselves they are not the ones hurting or suffering it makes me feel better and we will be with them again.it is us that is left to go through the rest of our lives with this heavy heart and unbearable misery but we are these boys's moms and they would want us to be strong for them.i know there are many days when this just seems so unrealistic to do,these are the days that we need to think about all of the joy and wonderful memories they have embedded into our hearts forever and those memories are something that NOONE can ever take from us ever!unlike you i have other children,my sons younger sister who is 13 and i have a 9 year old with the love of my life.BUT my 15 year old and my 13 year old were never in their dads life and him being at his sons funeral that he never knew by his choice was one of the hardest things i have ever gone through besides this horrible tragedy,he did have my daughter visit him soon after my sons funeral but again,he has walked away from her life.i guess we have to wonder why people are the way that they are.anyways now that i have gotten off the subject i was talking about,i just wanted to let you know that i sincerely know how this hurt and heartache feels and i would wish it on noone.again i am truly sorry for your loss and just remember we will always be their moms even if we are away from them for a little while.please take care of yourself and find peace in knowing that boy still loves you and misses you as much as you do him.again take care and know you have someone to talk to if u need to and a new found internet friend.someone who really knows what you are feeling.helping you to keep your beautiful sons memory alive!!!
kristi

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