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Subject: Re: Men Suck Author: nason [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 21:39:28 05/07/02 Tue In reply to: ... 's message, "Re: Men Suck" on 14:26:41 05/04/02 Sat Im sorry, I just cannot give much respect to someone that has slept with more people then I havew fingers. I mean, you dont respect yourself, so why should I respect you? Having sex with 13 people exposes you to 8,189 people if each of your partners has had sex with just as many people as you (13). Explaination [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Men Suck Author: wink [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:50:54 05/07/02 Tue To quote: "I just cannot give much respect to someone that has slept with more people then I havew fingers. I mean, you dont respect yourself, so why should I respect you?" Why do you automatically assume that sleeping with people is an effect of lack of respect for oneself? I mean were the statement "if you sleep with people, then you don't respect yourself" were logically sound, then the rest of your statement would be valid, but to assume that sex = disrespect just isn't true. It's a form of recreation, just like you running sound. What's the difference? Perspective? If that's the case then you'd be foolish to make such sweeping statements as everyone has a different opinion on things (like the one that i hold on this subject) and to say someone lacks respect for themselves over a completely objectionable subject just isn't right. So instead of condemning people for the ways they obtain pleasure in life, open your mind, after all that's what bahai is about right? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Men Suck Author: nason [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:54:33 05/08/02 Wed Sex is a form of recreation. She had 13 people that she wanted to start a family with? She didn’t learn after the first 2 or 3 that maybe the next would be an asshole and leave her or whatever? Usually I see having a kid or a family with someone that you have been with for awhile that way you know things are going to work and so you don’t end up fucking over the kid by being divorced.... I know what you are getting at... Really the way that people like me view this is.... You have sex with someone that you love, you don’t have to be married, although most people will say "I am not going to until I am married" which that could also mean with someone that they have been with for awhile and they love and feel that they are going be with forever. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Men Suck Author: wink [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:32:01 05/08/02 Wed >Sex is a form of recreation. She had 13 people that >she wanted to start a family with? Don't confuse recreation with procreation. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]