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Date Posted: 01:01:38 05/06/02 Mon
Author: Anne
Subject: Re: Dilemma
In reply to: james roberts 's message, "Re: Dilemma" on 23:13:29 03/04/02 Mon

Believe me, you should talk to her. Unrequited love just gets stronger and more obsessive. You need to make the issue a real issue and stop cultivating it in your mind. I am not being mean, but a good dose of reality will probably help you deal with it in a less obsessive way. Reality comes into all relationships at one point or another.....usually about a year after marriage. So, just consider it necessary for your health. And ask yourself, "what benefit am I getting from obsessively loving this girl?" It does afford a good excuse to not be responsible for the outcome of your life and college, doesn't it ? Take responsibilty for the cure and talk to her.

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