| Subject: Re: Nintendo=Masturbation Aid for teenage girls. |
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Susie
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Date Posted: 11:09:50 10/09/02 Wed
In reply to:
laura
's message, "Re: Nintendo=Masturbation Aid for teenage girls." on 20:39:51 08/27/02 Tue
AMEN!!
I have always been honest with both of my kids, my daughter was 20, this past Sept., and my son was 18, this past July. The more honest and open that you are with your children the better off you and the children will be.
Sex is natural, not dirty. All you need to do, as a parent, is be straight and honest with them. Tell them everything that you know, if they ask. Don't wait for them to ask....set up a time to sit down privately and have a heart to heart with your children. Tell them you would just like to discuss some things, etc.... Ask if there is anything they want to know! Tell them the best way you can, that they can understand. If they ask, then you answer. If you can't answer, or if you are too embarrassed, please find someone they trust, that can answer their questions!!
The more open and honest you are with your kids, the better relationship you will have and the less troubles you will have, at least in my experience with two grown children. There are more likely to come to you and talk, or ask questions. They need to know that you may not approve all that they do, but you are still her parents and they can ALWAYS come to you, no matter what!
If you lost it just because of a little masturbation scene, just imagine what your daughter will hide from now on! She should know that the feelings of wanting to touch herself is VERY normal, but she needs to ensure that she is always in private and if she ever wants to know anything, to come and talk because you are there for her!!
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