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Date Posted: 16:28:59 09/11/04 Sat
In reply to:
Mike
's message, "Re: Chicago, IL" on 14:17:45 08/10/03 Sun
I am in Minnesota and going through a divorce right now. My wife I suspect has BPD and I just leearned about the disorder about a month ago. I am reading the Eggshells book: Stop Walking on Eggshells. Wife accused me of all sorts of things during the first phase of the divorce, so I spent an incredible amount of time just defending myself. ALso, she has enlisted the help of many family members and even neighbors to defame me and get sole physical custody. She is a lawyer, so this helps her, too. I am afraid for the kids eventuallyat some future time, but I am afraid to take her on. I have half a loaf--a compormise between sole physical custody for her and a 40/60 split I requested. I am terrified she could still be successful in taking them away and gettin gsole physical custody, and make me pay child support instead of seeing my children as much. I am afraid she could still prevail. I don't know what she is up to. I thank God I don't have to put up with any more emotional verbal abuse from her, but I remain scared of her; and I know that she will be able to have this effect on me perhaps for years to come. But at least I have some peace.
>>Hey there are a several of us in the area. Three of
>>us get together occasionally already. Anyone else
>>interested. Email me for more details.
>>
>>D
>Dru,
>
>I am in Arlington Hts and in the divorce process with
>my suspected undiagnosed bpw. I am looking for some
>support. Would like to meet others in a similar
>situation.
>
>Mike
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