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Date Posted: 19:14:11 01/15/16 Fri
Author: Lily
Subject: Re: "you're born with a clean slate" ? are you?
In reply to: Melissa 's message, "Re: "you're born with a clean slate" ? are you?" on 17:39:45 01/15/16 Fri

I wouldn't be surprised if the numbers of boys and men who are sexually abused is much higher than is reported. My generation got the cane a lot which can be tantamount to sexual abuse.

Do I think this affected them, of course it did, did it affect the way they feel about their sexuality? I'd imagine so, but it didn't turn them gay.

I don't think it made them bottoms or tops either, whatever their orientation. but that, I don't think the science is in on that but that's what I believe.

How many of the women here have been sexually abused? at least a third of us, I believe the number is higher than that - any of us turn into lesbians? it's unimaginable isn't it. I used to Say I wish I were a lesbian they are the lucky ones but I couldn't change into one even if I had really wanted to.

Any of the straight men here saying different? nope.

Traumatic abuse can lead to confusion - why did I feel sexually aroused, it can lead to panic and sheer terror when faced with doing the sex act, awful feelings of guilt and shame but it doesn't change what your sexuality is.

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