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Date Posted: 10:25:56 01/18/16 Mon
Author: lily
Subject: Re: I didn't say we were born without a personality.....
In reply to: Jen 's message, "Re: I didn't say we were born without a personality....." on 23:16:36 01/17/16 Sun

The inference is that if you can turn gay through sexual abuse then you can revert to straight with a nice wife - do you think that is true?

Yes lots of gay men report being sexually abused. It could be that straight men are less likely to report being sexually abused and it could also be (as has been said by offenders) that gay sexual offenders can 'smell' a gay youth, they have an instinct for picking them.

My ex's first excuse was the priest at sunday school that looked at him sideways. A bit limp seeing as he didn't actually touch him - watching him speak about it tho, I got the impression that this was the moment he started to recognise his own feelings.

yes, misty beginnings - I don't remember exactly when I realised I was attracted to boys either.

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