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Date Posted: 10:32:23 04/25/16 Mon
Author: Grace (i'm so sorry)
Subject: Re: Who are you and where did the person I know go????
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Re: Who are you and where did the person I know go????" on 08:44:17 04/25/16 Mon

Doug,

I cried when I read your message. I feel your deep pain when one day you were a happy and intact family with a loving spouse and the next you have somebody who unknowingly or knowingly? hurts you with their actions. Maybe this is her way of detaching from you? Or maybe I am giving her the benefit of the doubt that it is not plain cruelty on her part.

I agree that it hurts like hell to turn off your emotions and your love for somebody you do still love but who has hurt you immensely. I am in the middle of separating from my GH, we still live in the same house, separate rooms, acting civil, but basically tip-toeing around each other. We have 3 kids. I caught his many indiscretions with men, he has fessed up, been apologetic, wants to get back with me but I am too tired and broken hearted to give him yet another chance. I'm done.

I hope he does not turn cruel when he leaves. I am hoping to co-parent amicably if that's at all possible.

My heart goes out to you. I know it's very hard but reading all the posts here give me hope that someday all will be well and we will not be hurting so much.

E-hugs.

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Re: Who are you and where did the person I know go???? -- Doug (to Grace), 08:34:30 04/26/16 Tue