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Date Posted: 13:54:57 03/30/17 Thu
Author: KatieH (Gaslighting)
Subject: Re: A lifetime lost
In reply to: I understand 's message, "Re: A lifetime lost" on 18:23:52 03/29/17 Wed

Thanks for sharing your stories. I married later (36) and had two sons with my ex-H in the closet man. It has taken me nearly 20 years to FINALLY have it sink in that this man was and is toxic and a master at manipulation and appearance. I just didn't believe someone could use me so completely and be human. Live and learn. To others, younger than my 65 years, don't compromise your career or think he'll ever do the right thing. Beware of "best" counselors who don't help YOU and also lawyers too passive to aggressively fight for your rightful LONG TERM needs after this "partner" used you through your fertile career years. I was too nice and "understanding."

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