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Date Posted: 17:41:35 04/21/17 Fri
Author: Mel (New to Straight Spouses)
Subject: Re: A lifetime lost
In reply to: Christine 's message, "A lifetime lost" on 14:33:56 03/29/17 Wed

You do wonder how these people sleep at night don't you? I've been with my husband for 24 years and found out Dec 15 that he'd been going to gay sauna' s when I confronted him he said he'd had feelings for men since he was young, I had just been a witness in a high profile murder case which involved a very dear friend which had already thrown my whole world upside down and if I'm honest I think I felt that if I dealt with his revelation at that point I would go under and I still loved him so we moved 250 miles away (near his family) and set up a home together again. 12 months on and he's distant and critical again, my gut tells me he's cruising (another passion he's had in the past) and I was right when he was caught before so I've ended it, now I keep replaying situations over and over and realise I really must have been very naiive to not see what was going on under my nose! He always wanted to go to gran canaria and would go to the nudist beach (always insisted he wanted to go alone) he would see me safely to bed and would 'go for a drink at the bar' as he could never sleep and at home would find any excuse to 'pop out and be gone a couple of hours with no explanation - thank the Lord we didnt have children, if I had and he tried to turn them against me I'd be crushed (your daughter will see sense) and I now have the threat of HIV as he's tested positive (says he was attacked at one of the gay saunas) and insists he has never had sex voluntarily with another man......manipulative liar

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