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Date Posted: 02:39:01 05/23/17 Tue
Author: Lynn (He always denied)
Subject: Re: suspicions
In reply to: Lynn 's message, "suspicions" on 20:12:04 01/13/16 Wed

Yes its very hard to believe what happening to you. My husband He has alway denied any title. My journey started 3 years into my marriage. My mother tried to tell me that our car was parked at a well know gay mans home in town frequent.
It was always in the back of my mind but I did not want to believe it
There were sign he was cheating. Crabs, std of several kinds. Later we moved to another state. And I saw something under the car seat. It was a big porn book with men. He still denied ..
More down the road I was called by the health dept cause he donated blood and it was positive for syphlis.
It was about that time I had a nervous break down over all the years of lies. And expossing me to all the stds by the way I quit having sex and the years went on. He still tried to denie
This may sound funny but he was always going out on his bike for hours at a time. He was always nowhere! For him to tell it.
I then went on a trip. Before I left I asked God to expose him so he could not lie and no matter what I had to know if it was just cheating or sex with men. While I was gone He was arrested for the first time in life for being with another man sexually in a public park. It was on Tv and news papers and internet. He still tried to denie it. By then not having money to leave stayed living in the same house as friends and helpers to keep the household going. Been married 47 years. He has several male friends in the park he hangs out with and i checked and I know its more than just friends. By the way he still denies.. God showed me I was not going crazy. Now its out. Family and friends my church our town everyone knows but but he still denies.

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