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Date Posted: 02:09:58 05/13/16 Fri
Author: LostGirl
Subject: Re: Any input? My story is sad.
In reply to: Rachael 's message, "Re: Any input? My story is sad." on 22:29:39 05/12/16 Thu

The doctor wrote down all of her concerns and checked my youngest. I mentioned all the behaviors in my youngest daughter and my oldest daughter is still closed with what happened.she physically cannot say it to someone on the outside. The doctor asked my oldest daughter if I could say what she had disclosed and she said yes and then the doctor asked her to step in if she wanted to add anything or if anything was untrue. Then I told her what I knew and I believe the doctor was noticing the reaction of my daughter when I said it. She's reffered us again to a special team to do a medical check up, so hoping they will check her urine and run tests, make sure she's okay. That will be next week I think. I don't think child protection will be involved with us as the doctor did go down and try to bring up her concerns with child protection they still don't want to.

Today my daughters psychologist did a check up and asked about the abuse to just me and the biological father of my oldest daughter. She asked what is going on and my ex answered the same thing I said to the doctor the other day and I never told him details, couldnt bring myself to. So she's opened up to her Dad. My daughter likes her psycologist so I think she may open up with her maybe. I'm willing to pay for extra sessions with her after the allowed sessions are done as I think it would benefit her a lot.

Definitely when we are at the check up at the hospital since my oldest daughters father is aware of what happened I will likely ask them about therapy for him, as I know it stings.

Waiting on things still

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Re: Any input? My story is sad. -- Rachael, 14:28:53 05/13/16 Fri
- Re: Any input? My story is sad. -- LostGirl, 18:45:20 05/17/16 Tue